I was talking with this guy about like some of my problems (self harming and anorexia) and some of the trouble I get into and some of the crappy stuff that has happened to me and all that and he was like "it's okay Im actually really attracted to damaged and broken girls" and then went through a list of girls hed dated that were a LOT like me
why is this a turn on for some guys? He's not the first to say it. What is it that makes you attracted to someone damaged?
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Broken people like broken people or they try to fix people. I think everyone is damaged in some way. Every single girl I have been with had some sort of problem and I don't think I just attract messed up people I attract normal people. We all have baggage that defines our life in one way or the other though for better or worse.3