Got ya pegged for a troll but I'll humor it.
Guys whom are indeed good looking can expect the following:
- Mothers/aunts suggesting you either know their daughter or niece and suggest that you talk to her or go to the park to walk their dogs with them.
- Girls from work suggest you go out for sushi or give them rides to their place just because.
- Gym attendants needing to say goodbye to you when you could care less whether or not they do.
- Girls smile at you when you make eye contact but only really need her to throw some thrash away because they're headed in that direction.
All these situations definitely involve almost little to no effort on your part, good luck.
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Well... I actually used to be a fat, unattractive slob during my teens and early 20s, yet some girls asked me out. Both my previous relationships happened during that period, and the girls themselves initiated things in both cases.
It's strange that after I shed the extra pounds, got a make over and often get complimented for being more attractive, I hardly get female attention!
So you see, it's not about looks here. It can depend on several factors. But a lot more girls these days are open to initiate, than what we are made to believe.
I don't think you're doomed to fail. You just have to put yourself in the right environment. If you're in college you can join a fraternity, a club, or play a sport. If you have a job in a retail or restaurant environment you can meet people there. I don't think the bar scene is what you're looking for, but I do have friends who are in a relationship that started as a hook up. They are the exception though.
You need to at least show them you're interested. Give them a smile or something. I won't approach a guy unless he looks approachable and open.
Well get a little comfortable to invoke a girl to believe you have interest in her but don't just sit quietly
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Who cares. Start a business so that you'll have a Gulfstream by 30.
Most girls, like over 95 percent of them, will never approach a guy or ask a guy out first, unfortunately
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