Im not ready im 14 going on 15 he is 15 going on 16 i have been dating my boyfriend for 1 year but i have known him my whole life our parents went to middle school together and it so happened we grow up together and liked each other im in 9th grade he is in 11th grade and we have never talked about sex tell now but he is been kinda of a push push kinda guy and he is never like this what do i do i want to but i want to talk more about it and have protection and not jump right in to something i will regret
Most Helpful Guy
Nope! Nope nope nope nope nope.
DON'T let him bully you into sex. You want to have sex with a MAN. A MAN doesn't pressure his girlfriend into having sex, he EARNS it by respecting you when you say you don't want it.
14 is WAY too young for a guy or girl to be having sex. Wait until you're 20 and in college, have more privacy, have a better body, and can make better decisions for yourself... you'll be surrounded by more mature guys then too!2
Most Helpful Girl
I wouldn't do it sweetheart, I know sometimes it's hard to constantly tell someone you love no but he needs to respect that you are not ready. He's 16 he has lots of time he dosent need to rush it because if you force things it will end up hurting you both in the end.
If you two are spending time together and he keeps asking and making you uncomfortable it's okay to make an excuse to leave and let him cool down.
You can love someone without having sex (especially at such a young age) so when he says "you love me don't you?" Don't feel guilty.
Stand your ground and know when it's time to walk away from the situation to avoid you both getting hurt0