I hit my boyfriend will he forgive me?

I was very drunk and it was totally out of character. My boyfriend had an affair in the past and I had deleted and blocked the girl who he had it with on his phone. On this night as I found that he had unblocked the girl and was furious about it.. He tried to talk to me about it and explain that he had not unblocked her but she was so clearly unblocked. Anyways now after hitting him in the club he said that it was an embarrassment and that he has pride. He is now ignoring me. Will he come around? I am reflecting on everything and know I am in the wrong for hitting him and there could be an alternative explanation/ I got it wrong.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Now imagine if you were a guy, and you hit your girlfriend, people in the comments would be wanting to see you hung.. Lmao the double standard

    But in all seriousness you guys sound like a shit couple, he's as fucking cunt, you're being too soft for taking him back, and now you're being a fool for wanting this cheating dickstick to come around for a second time...
    You're fucking yourself over here matey...

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    • It's not acceptable for any person to be physically aggressive and I know that. This was a one time drunken mess up. But thats no excuse still.

      I tried to forgive him cause I had feelings for him and he promised to change, which I did see some changes, but then him unblocking her made me question things and infuriated me.

      In some regards you are right, maybe we aren't good for each other but I struggle to accept that cause I still have feelings.

    • Matey, in all honesty, you're playing yourself for a fool here... I don't understand why girls like you stick with cunts like this when there are so many decent guys?

      I mean, fuck.. You're still young, clearly your caring and and a loving person, why stick around with some asshat who quite obviously does not feel the same way?

      I know it's easy for me to say, because im not in your boots and haven't fell for this dude like you at some point have, but holy shit you're making a joke out of yourself wanting him to come back again not once, but twice..

      I don't like giving advice because sometimes it can be harmful and I'll never Be able to know the full extent of your situation, but holy shit if I was in your shoes I would have left that pathetic sack of sht the minute he first cheated, not try and salvage the unsalvagable...

Most Helpful Girl

  • the whole thing is a mess. ur drunk, u hit him, he's disloyal, having an affair... there's blocking and unblocking, and there's embarrassment and pride...

    i mean seriously, either BOTH of you get your shit together and work it out if you love each other, or go your separate ways and understand what it means to be in a grown up relationship.

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What Guys Said 11

  • Just break up with for god sake alive. You dont trust him. I believe once a cheater always a cheater in these types of circumstances. Cheaters can change I'm new relationships but never the current ones whom they've chested on. You deserve a man that only sticks his dip stick your oil pan and not any others. Move on and find a better guy.

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  • You deserve the same actually. He must be a gentleman to not hit you. I think don't follow him anymore, find good cat couples and watch their reproducing instead of yours)))))))

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  • If he had hit you, would you come around? Physical violence is a nono. If my s/o would ever hit me there wouldn't be anything left to say beside pragmatical deliberation to conclude the relationship in a respectful way.

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  • Girls be walking around thinking they can hit guys when they're mad and don't think of the consequences. Even if he forgives you, he'll never forget it. So congratulations, you fucked up

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  • Well how often do you drink?

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    • One to two days in a week (weekend only)

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    • About once in 3 months. I won't be getting drunk again.

    • Okay. As long as you're able to keep to that promise, you just need to convince him of it.

  • You hit him on the face?

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  • If it were me, I wouldn't come around.

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  • maybe its a good thing to apologize.

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    • I have apologised and it is not an action I would ever do again. I know I was wrong and he has every reason to be angry at me.

    • just give him some time.

  • Smh he's a good guy for not hitting back...

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  • tell him to stop being a fag n to get over it

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  • Just like I tell girls to not go back when they are with an abusive guy I hope he doesn't come back to you. You need anger management classes.

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    • I understand where you are coming from and will seek help.

What Girls Said 4

  • He might, but violence is never the answer, just because you were drunk isn't an excuse. Just because it was the heat of the moment doesn't mean it was okay, he sounds truly hurt not because of the physical action but more or less because that isn't the person he knows and it can be terrifying to get back into a relationship with someone who has done that.

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  • Make sure you apologise but I dunno. He might not forgive you and it's not like he has any reason to.

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  • Firstly, I don't think it was your place to have blocked her on his phone. That is something that he should have done if you had asked. Yes, it is a bit concerning that he unblocked her, but it may not have necessarily been for the fact that he wanted to talk to her and meet up with her. My ex asked to be friends with me on facebook so I added him. Doesn't mean I want to talk to him or meet up with him.

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  • He will come around if he really loves you and cares. He will take your feelings into consideration also. If he doesn't let him walk

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