I was very drunk and it was totally out of character. My boyfriend had an affair in the past and I had deleted and blocked the girl who he had it with on his phone. On this night as I found that he had unblocked the girl and was furious about it.. He tried to talk to me about it and explain that he had not unblocked her but she was so clearly unblocked. Anyways now after hitting him in the club he said that it was an embarrassment and that he has pride. He is now ignoring me. Will he come around? I am reflecting on everything and know I am in the wrong for hitting him and there could be an alternative explanation/ I got it wrong.
Now imagine if you were a guy, and you hit your girlfriend, people in the comments would be wanting to see you hung.. Lmao the double standard
But in all seriousness you guys sound like a shit couple, he's as fucking cunt, you're being too soft for taking him back, and now you're being a fool for wanting this cheating dickstick to come around for a second time... You're fucking yourself over here matey...
Just break up with for god sake alive. You dont trust him. I believe once a cheater always a cheater in these types of circumstances. Cheaters can change I'm new relationships but never the current ones whom they've chested on. You deserve a man that only sticks his dip stick your oil pan and not any others. Move on and find a better guy.
If he had hit you, would you come around? Physical violence is a nono. If my s/o would ever hit me there wouldn't be anything left to say beside pragmatical deliberation to conclude the relationship in a respectful way.
He might, but violence is never the answer, just because you were drunk isn't an excuse. Just because it was the heat of the moment doesn't mean it was okay, he sounds truly hurt not because of the physical action but more or less because that isn't the person he knows and it can be terrifying to get back into a relationship with someone who has done that.
Firstly, I don't think it was your place to have blocked her on his phone. That is something that he should have done if you had asked. Yes, it is a bit concerning that he unblocked her, but it may not have necessarily been for the fact that he wanted to talk to her and meet up with her. My ex asked to be friends with me on facebook so I added him. Doesn't mean I want to talk to him or meet up with him.