I'm asking because many times I've heard of other woman liking older men people say they just have daddy issues. So I'm a bit hesitant of embracing it.
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No, it isn't. As this society and this world runs towards oblivion, men are becoming more shallow. Wanting maturity, decisiveness, and a guy who knows what he wants rather than the 30 somethings with the pre pubescent mentality of sex sex sex is admirable. Don't settle, but don't let any man touch your body sexually unless he's put in the time to get to know and love you, and wants to spend the rest of his life with you.
You want someone who will take charge and be there for you, while honoring you. Many men just want innocent women, or younger woman, because many women today are jaded, angry, and cruel, it is partly their fault for letting a man sleep with them before he put his dues in, and partly the guy's fault for only wanting sex above her heart and spirit and everything else.
It will happen, but don't let anyone take advantage of you. If you deny a man sex before marriage and he leaves, guess what, all he truly wanted was just sex. But if he sticks around, there's a possibility he will give you his heart, too, and in turn, you must give him yours as well. Guard your heart, be careful out there.2