Do you believe in Love at first sight or do you think a good friendship is the foundation for a good relationship? Have any of you had experience with a friend becoming your lover/significant other after a number of years?
Most Helpful Guy
To really love someone, you have to know them. You cannot know someone when you first see them. 'Love' at first sight is really 'lust' at first sight. Physical attraction helps, but really know one someone as a friend first is needed to really love someone.1
Most Helpful Girl
Personally , I couldn't fall in love at first sight. I'm initially attracted to a guys appearance , but it's his personality that I fall in love with. So his personality determines if the relationship progresses and develops... this is only over time though.
I need to know a guy really well before I could ever fall in love with him. So a friendship is a great foundation to build a close and loving relationship with him. As our friendship grew, our feelings would also grow stronger too. So in time , love would blossom, and our bond would become strengthened1