Lets face it. Teen and early 20 Girls love assholes and assholes always get first chance at a girl. The majority if us are nice guys who get asshole leftovers or are alone.
But let's not give up hope. Nice guys can turn asshole when they finally get a chance at dating a girl. The girl is used goods and you can now be an asshole all you want. You can shed the nice guy label forever.
I was a nice guy late bloomer who turned asshole at 18 after I finally got a chance to date used girls. I'm satisfied.
Would you rather be an asshole who gets to date girls? Or would you rather be the nice guy who is alone?
At this point I would want to be the asshole who gets action. I will not describe myself as a "nice guy" because that term now carries negative associations with it, despite the well intended meaning. But I would call myself a well mannered and considerate person. But that hasn't gotten me anywhere.
If you know how to conduct yourself and walk the line of nice and flirty - you'll have no problems with this. I choose nice and alone. At least I'd be at peace with myself. And there's nothing better than being able to say you're pleased with who you are.
I can confidently say that my current and my ex boyfriend's are/were not assholes. I wouldn't touch a guy who's an asshole with a 50ft pole. And I'm sure a lot of other women in their teens and early twenties would agree with me. Please stop generalising.
Your poll doesn't contain all the options. I am a nice guy, I have dated many women, and I have rarely been friend-zoned. The problem with your question is that you don't define what it means to be a "nice guy" and there are several different meanings.
I am the nice guy with no girlfriend, but I don't mind at all. Mostly because, I know this will sound like a cliche, I have some principles I want to respect. And being nice is one of them. Don't think of nice like the weak guy who has nothing to say, nice like I treat people with respect, and I specially hate mocking, it shows a person weakness.
I've been friendzoned and have been alone since forever, but I'm not going to drop being a nice guy as that's who I am. I'm just going to continue to work on improving myself until I meet someone who appreciates a nice guy.
I dunno... but I get get ladies so... wait... OH GLOB... I might be an ASSHOLE! :o imagesoffunny.com/.../...ked-cat-GIF-animation.gif Lol I dunno, women like confidence... but the ones who like assholes stay FAR AWAY FROM THEM, they are damaged goods.
The guys on here that say "nice guys never get the girl" come off as friends with how they approach girls. You can be nice but you have to have a backbone and not be a complete pushover. Girls don't want the guy pussy footing around trying to be their friend then try and date thst dude. They want a guy who knows what he's after. Also everyone loves the chase whether we like to admit it or not.
I can't deny that sometimes I think that assholes do get girls but you gotta look through the lines, what do assholes usually have? Confidence. A nice guy can get a girl with confidence so you can't blame women for your lack of relationships. I wouldn't wanna date a girl who are into assholes anyways including myself. Rather take a girl who's into me as a person so I don't have to pretend.