I just moved to a new city and decided to try Bumble (never used dating apps before). There were a few guys I liked so I swiped right on and ended up matching. I wrote to all of them, but the thing is only TWO actually wrote me back the entire time I've used the app. From what people tell me I'm attractive, I'm not conceited it's just the feedback i've gotten in the past and I try and write in a friendly way and try some humor if I can, so I really hope it's not me!
Guys, what is your experience from Bumble. Do you ever end up stop responding to girls and if so, why? There was one in particular I really liked, the way he wrote made him seem like a really cool guy and I wanted to try and actually set something up in person. From your point of view, would you be weirded out if a girl writes back after no response after a few days and asks the GUY out or gives her number, or would you most likely enjoy that? The last thing he wrote was that he was on his way to see Kevin Hart with a friend and was asking me what brought me to my current city now. I responded and asked him what brought him here as well from his hometown and then nothing for a couple days. Then again, it's still the weekend. What do you think?
Most Helpful Guy
I haven't bothered with it. I don't have pics that make me look ready for a magazine cover photo shoot, so Tinder, POF, all that shit is pointless. Bumble would be even worse, if it's the thing I'm thinking of where only women can send the first message.
IF I were to do any of these apps, sites, whatever, I'd stop responding if she said something that irritated me or showed me that she was really damn dumb, or if she used any feminazi buzzwords.
It wouldn't weird me out if a girl asked me out, gave her number, whatever, after a weekend with no contact. Even if I had already disqualified her for some reason, I wouldn't be weirded out, I'd just continue not talking to her.2
Most Helpful Girl
No matter what Dating Site, it is the Internet, and both Girls and Guys can have their Pick... Behind the Computer Curtain.
In the Comfort of your own Living Room, you Can get to know Someone or Else be Able to Move on and Never Speak another Word.
Change of Heart and in Head, this is the Way it Goes and Flows with Online Dating.
Good luck. xx0