For the last three months this man that works in the same location as I has been staring at me and always looked me in the eyes it was very intense. He really got my attention he was always trying to be close and even to close into my personal space. All of a sudden his ignoring me he won't even look at me. I look better then I have in a long time. I've been working out and it shows I dress better I've been told by both men and women that I'm sexy but in an elegant and classy way. I'm always happy and smiling. Working out has given me much more confidence and I really feel great. Although his behavior has really hurt me and gotten me so down because I really like him and I thought that he liked me, but I've come to the conclusion that it was just a game to him. I don't get why grown men would play this sort of game when they have no intention of making a move. I guess that men do this sort of thing to make themselves feel good. Well guess what guy's this is very very hurtful and damaging to us. Its made me feel worthless and stupid for even thinking that this guy liked me. I will totally began to stay away from this creepy man and get him out of my head!
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It's not a game. People, not just men, can be put off so easily. and They won't tell you why they'll just change their behavior accordingly. It doesn't make sense because you don't know the reason for it, but you can be sure there is a reason. Probably something along the lines he got close enough to discover something he didn't like at all. Of course it would be easier if people explained their behaviours but there's a whole lot of other psychological reasons why they don't. However your mistake in all this is assuming that getting to know you automatically means liking you more. Men are typically attracted by looks first and worry about the rest later. They might be all enthusiastic in the beginning but getting to know you is really the crunch point. They either continue forward or decide they made a mistake and withdraw. Unfortunately the time-scale on this and how they act on their initial interest is different for different men. Best thing you can do is defer emotional attachment until they at least start to deliver on whatever it is you really want to be happening.0