The guy I recently started talking to, asked if we can hang out. He said he is free whenever I'm free. So, I said Friday. We didn't set the place or the time because I assumed we will do that today (Friday). Its already 3pm and he hasn't called to confirm our date. Should I be concerned? Could it be that he is busy or trying to act cool? Is he going to call me at the last minute and expect me to still be available? Guys do you usually call and confirm if so around what time? could it be that he doesn't respect me?...any thoughts on this, please help
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Of course you should be concerned. But not for reasons you think you should be concerned about. You should be concerned that he did the following
"I'm free whenever you are free" <--What the f*** does that even mean? Is he saying that he has no life and is sitting around waiting for you to become available to him?
He didn't schedule a time and a place <--Either he has no game, or he was saying this as a courtesy
It's Friday and he hasn't called <--He is not busy nor is he trying to act cool, maybe he will call to which you need to cancel just to keep him on his toes.
Why? Counter intuitive isn't it? Because...
-You don't want go out on a date with a guy that didn't take the time to plan it out correctly.
-You don't want to be seen as a girl that has no life either, and that you sat around waiting for him to call
-You want to show him that if he is not going to accurately set up a time, that you have other things to do and can't be held in confusion like that.
Tell him you would have loved to go but because he failed to set up a time and date for Friday and called you at the last minute, that you ended up having a change of plan. Tell him that you would love to hang out with him next week and that you guys should work out a schedule correctly.
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