She always answers immediately when I call or text and she calls and texts me on her own as well. She always acts excited when she sees or talks to me. When we see each other just to hang out she would text me later saying things like "we should definitely do this again." We went out on our first date, had a great time, texted some the next week, and then I text her to go out again sometime next week and she said she would. I call her later that week to set up a time and get voicemail. It's been three days.
I'm not going to try again because I shouldn't have to. I told her to call me when she got the message. So I don't need any advice about that. I just want to know why would she give me all of these signals she's interested and then drop me cold.
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Dude just chill and take it slow with this one, you've only been on one date, and your acting like she is the love of your life. Maybe she's been busy doing other things and hasn't returned your call. Your right you shouldn't have to try again because you already did. She got your voice mail, she got your texts, and she is fully aware that she hasn't called you, women live by their phones my friend.
She's either doing one of two things, she is either ignoring you because well she's not that interested contrary to what she told earlier, or she is into you and is just making you sweat it out for a while, and when she feels like she might give you a call. If you play into that game you've already lost. She may seem like a great girl, but your hooked on her and that's not good. What you need to do now is say hmm oh well I'll find another girl and go find another one, and then another and another, until you have some options. Or wait a few more days and call her one last time just say hey haven't heard from you in a while call me back and we can set up another date. Simple as that, now if she doesn't call then forget her move on.
If she really wanted to talk to you she would have by now, but she hasn't maybe she met another dude idk, but I do know women, they lie and well they just can't be trusted, and I think the reason why they lie is because they want to find a way to let a guy down easy, and they think the best way is to completely ignore him and all this will go away, and they can return to their little world of sunshine and rainbows. But the reality is it just doesn't work like that ladies you can't lead a guy on and then ignore him and expect it all to go away you need to tell him, in some way or another.1