My boyfriend keeps joking about me having "another boyfriend."
We were laying in bed the other night, and he was playing in my hair. He just randomly said "So, did you talk to your other boyfriend today?" I looked at him with a "What the heck?" face.
I am loyal. I have never cheated.. ever. I have never even thought about it. When I tell someone I love them, I mean it, and I take it very seriously.
So I said something like "It is hard to talk to my other boyfriend, when I only have one: you."
He just laughed it off and said "I don't see how a girl as pretty as you can have only one."
End of conversation.
A few days later, we were eating dinner out, and my female friend texted me, wanting to know if I could talk. I answered with "I'm out. Can I call you later?" He peaked over, and asked if I was talking to me "other boyfriend." Now, though he says he is joking.. it really gets under my skin. He has seen my messages. I text everyone right in front of him, so he can see! I have nothing to hide.
He has mentioned this "other boyfriend" several other times. I am starting to get annoyed.
Is it possible that he is just trying to get me to play along, or get a rise out of me?
Is he, possibly, accusing me of something that he is doing?
He went out of town, and came home with what looked like a hickey. He claimed his guy friend pinched him really hard. Then once I went down on him, and he tasted all strawberry-ish, like the special stuff you can put on down there to make it taste better. We have never used that, because I don't like it. I mentioned it, and his excuse was "Well, it is probably pre-cum."
Am I being too sensitive? I really don't think he is the cheating type, but I do not know what to do, or how to react to this.
Any advice? All is appreciated.
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I think he's insecure. Many joke about things that bother them. However, it's not always the case. I tease my boyfriend about him having another girlfriend, when I know its not true. For example, if he's on the phone, I'll be like "Mmhmmm.. on the phone with your other woman." But I know I'm his only one.1
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