I've been dating this girl since February and made it official earlier this month (4/8). So today I was bored and wondered to myself if she is still on okcupid. I disabled my account months ago. I found that she is but has changed her single status to "seeing someone". And that she is looking for friends. WTF? People don't become friends through online dating sites do they? At that she is looking for male friends ages 28-38. I'm seriously mad. She hasn't been active on the site since the first week of April but why not disable it? She has more friends than I do here. I think I may just keep my profile up now, and see if she says something.
What do you think I should do? What would you think?
- That's f***ed. Dump her.Vote A
- It's not a big deal. She wants friends.Vote B
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It took me a while to take mine down but I wasn't visiting it at all. Just too lazy to take it down. It took me months. When I did take mine down, I quickly checked my boyfriends and he didn't take his down. He just hasn't logged in since we started dating. Sometimes it's a matter of laziness but if you don't like it ask her to take it down.
I have made lots of friends from dating sites. Granted they were looking for more and this was before I met my boyfriend but you can make friends on those sites.0