I have been wondering lately if it is a turnoff to like a girl with no experience in the dating field (or anything whatsoever). Would you think there is something wrong with said girl? For example, myself. I have no dating experience and I feel like when guys find out they are put off because maybe they'd think there must be something wrong with me for guys not to date me or that I'm really picky... I just haven't had really any opportunities to go on a date. I have a lot of guy friends and such but this doesn't help at all. Is this having no experience a determining factor of why guys don't see me as dating material?
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Since when is being picky a bad thing?
Short answer to your question: No.
Now, you have to in some way let guys know that you're willing to date them. We're not mind readers. Having many guy friends can actually send a confusing message, because other guys see this and either assume that you must have dated all the guys you know or wonder why you haven't. Guys are more likely to assume you have a lot of dating experience if they see a lot of guys hanging around you.
You're almost certainly making the wrong assumptions when you presume that guys don't see you as "dating material".
It's not easy asking a girl out. The thought of rejection is not pleasant. Undoubtedly, there's some guy you've met at some point or maybe even still know, who thought about trying to date you, but didn't want to risk the awkwardness of you saying no. It has nothing to do with you being "dating material" or how much dating experience you have.
How on earth would a guy know how much experience you have anyway? As I said, not mind readers...0