I've been dating this guy who I knew from high school for a couple weeks. Just casual nothing serious but all my friends say when we hang out we act like a couple he's always holding me and we kiss when we greet each other and he introduces me to his friends.
I slept over his place on Friday night and we had fun and Saturday morning we had fun just chatting and stuff and he said lets get brunch don't leave yet, but I had to go meet a friend and wanted to shower and stuff
Normally he texts me every day but now I haven't heard from him for 3 days and I don't know what's going on. Nothing has changed as far as I know. I texted him Saturday night asking what he was doing and he responded asking where I was going and when we were gonna hang and stuff but now I haven't heard from him since then and he normally texts me a lot so now I'm concerned.
Should I text him first or wait till he comes to me? I hate games but I know guys like to play them and my friends keep telling me to wait till he texts me because I need to make him think that I don't miss him. Not sure if that is the best advice.
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Nothing has changed. He has just slowed down his pace of communication from girl speed, to guy speed.
It's not a game. It's something you need to learn. The rapid-fire texting that happens at the start of a relationship? That's girl speed. Guys try to keep up with that for a while, but we can't, so we slow down eventually to guy speed.
This will happen with EVERY guy you ever date. You might as well get used to it now, so you don't freak out when it happens. Because it will. With every single guy you ever date.0