Help with the first kiss.

My first boyfriend and I have not kissed. I am his first girlfriend and we are each others first kiss. I've done things like make Hershey Kiss Pies with him and cuddled on the grass with him. While cuddling, he went for the kiss twice and I also went for it, but he backed out. Tomorrow, we are going on a double date with our best friends to see Les Mis and then having a movie marathon at my place after. What would be some ways to get gim to kiss be there with out it being awkward in front of our friends. Also, we are going to our best guy friend's home on New Years Eve while his parents have a party. Should I just wait until midnight for the kiss or what? Please help me.


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Most Helpful Girl

  • I think it would be so much more romantic if you waited until New Years Eve to kiss him.

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What Guys Said 3

  • It seems like you want to kiss and he is hesitating, between the two of you it takes two to make a kiss and it is awkward to discuss something like that especially being first girlfriends and boyfriends but remember afterward there are bigger issues later in life the amount of time spent on whether to kiss or not is futile because once it is done it will be your only first kiss so it should be memorable so I would throw some hints on whether he may or may not want to wait for new years but for the occasion it would be a plus. Great question and I hope it works out for you both.

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  • three month without kissing, I think it may be time fro you to grab him and land that kiss, nothing sexier than a girl who takes control.

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  • Be confident and help him let him know you care if he try's to back out again grab his hand and look into his eyes so he knows you want to then lean in and see if he meets you half way :)

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What Girls Said 4

  • When me and my ex boyfriend kissed for the first time, we had had multiple opportunities but we never did it. When we finally did it we were alone and we were saying goodbye for the night. I think if you waited until New Years that would be fine, however if you want to do it sooner then that I say go for it. I think if you're bold and just do it it'll make it easier, my ex was nervous to do it for the first time so that's why I kissed him first and after that everything was great! So do what you think is best!

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  • If you notice him trying to go if for the kiss but then he looks like he is going to back out, then you should just kiss him before he has a chance to back out completely

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  • I've been dating my boyfriend for seriously 6 months and we haven't kissed, I'm thinking that it's time for me to take control same with you XD it's annoying to be kept waiting dammit!

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  • just grab him and kiss him when the time feels right...

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