Seriously I and other guys want to know why is it always the good looking guys who get dates? All this stuff about having confidence is a sham and women use it as an excuse to give ugly, average and below average looking guys a reason not to give up what a croc of BS. Why can't they the (women) just admit they want good looking guys like this link
And not this link
I mean if confidence is nothing but an excuse, how the hell is any guy suppose to get a date or girlfriend if the girl finds the guy not to be her type?
- Yes women do want good looking guys but lie about it?Vote A
- Yes women only want good looking guys?Vote B
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Let me present you a counter question.
Why do men never give average or below average looking guys a chance?
Equally preposterous, I know. But replace the word "never" with 'usually' and both questions are valid.
We're wired to aim high. Try to maximise our offsprings ginetic inheritance, and that doesn't mean going for the coals amongst the diamonds. Both sexes try hitting above their weight and then complain when it doesn't go their way and then in turn begin to blame it on the oposite sex. Eventually realism kicks in and peoples standards drop.
Yes, attraction is a fundimental building block of a relationship. But it is not the 'be all and end all' of it. No, there is much more (confidence, personality etc)
But at the same time, yes, women to spew verbal diaorehha about how its all about confidence and personality. Women are just as visual as men (if not moreso), its just not quite accepted by society yet (aka: other women) to be honest about this fact. Its just not ladylike.
If you're not succeeding, you're doing something wrong. As such, you need to work on it and improve yourself to compensate for where you're failing. Ie; a tan, new haircut, better clothes, exercise. The list goes on. Chances are the fault is with you, not with an entire gender.9
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