Hi... so, there's this guy who's a player. We talk every now and then but most of the time he's the one who talks first. We've also hooked up before. So today he texts me only to say that I never write to him first and that he's the one who always has to initiate our conversations. What's that about?
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He's a player. He's complaining that he always has to text you first because he wants you to text him first. he wants to know he's on your mind more. it's a power thing for people like that. if you aren't texting much then in his eyes, you aren't that interested. he wants to know he has you in the palm of his hand. So don't listen to his complaints and continue letting him initiate everything. he wants to have all the power. he's a player so he doesn't need that lol1