My friend won't stop complaining about her boobs. How can I tell her in a respectful way that I have had enough?

[Anonymous]

So I have this friend with whom I get along well. But there is a problem. She always talks and complains about how big her boobs are. And how she finds it very irritating. At first I was like okay she mentions it for a few times. But now it's really getting out of hand. She literally tries to make every conversation we have about her boobs. Every time she has the chance she turns the conversation to that topic. For example we're talking about clothes and she always says Omg I have big boobs it's such a problem finding clothes. And when we are not talking, she texts me about trying to find clothes for fat people. So I tell her she's not fat at all and then she begins again about how she wishes she had smaller boobs and stuff like that. She also complains all the time that she hates it how men are always misbehaving with her because of her boobs and she always wears black so it camouflages her boobs. And she says I hate it when I wear a top with a printed text people always read what's written and they are looking at my boobs. I don't normally complain but I just can't take it anymore that every conversation we have is about how hard her life is with her big boobs. I know other people with big boobs but I have never heard them complain. My size is one size below her but I don't complain. Her boobs are like from her belly button to higher than her armpits, reaching almost her collar bones. I understand if she complains every now and then, I can accept that. But I can't take it when almost every conversation we have is about her boobs. So my question is how do I let her know that I have kind of had enough of her boob stories?

[btbc92]

Just tell her to talk about something else. Why is her breast size such a problem? I have never complained about breast except when I was around 10 years old, and that was because I didn't know any better. Now my breast is technically big for my body frame and it runs in the family too. Its understandable that its hard to find good clothes. But that all depends on how she dresses. If she's dressing where it shows a lot or it really stands out, then she needs bigger loose fitting clothes as long as it covers her breast and cheats area.

She is not going to listen to you about how she okay. So she either change how she dresses, or stop talking to her for a while. She has to make it work, or have her go to somebody who can teach her how to dress properly. Men are men, and few is either going to respect her with breast and all. While many others will lust like uncontrollable horny dogs. If they have a lustful mind, they'll do it anyway no matter how big or small she bust size is. Its her body, she either loves it or hate it. Her choice. Its never easy being big for your size or frame. Let alone big anyway.

[Anonymous]

Could you point it out to her? So '' Ah all we ever seem to talk about is your boobs! I'm sorry it bothers you so much I wish I could make you feel better but I'm not sure what else I can do! Shall we start trying to talk about something else instead? ''

I had a point where my best friend would only moan about work or talk about her ex boyfriend. The same old thing and negativity over and over and it really bought me down. For ages. So, she rung me one night to hang out. So I said, yeah sure I'm definitely up for that. Then I said '' ok, if we meet up lets make a pact and agree to not talk about work or our ex boyfriends and just try and forget all that and have fun '' So I was making it liuke it's me too lol
To be honest it only workd for 30 minutes.

You could always just try and change the subject. Or be more open and honest and say that you want to talk about something else sometimes. But just make sure it's not becuase you don't care it bothers her. Maybe you could agree to talk boobs for 10 minutes then it's over with. If she's not a great friend maybe just start to distance yourslef.

[Anonymous]

I feel you're pain. I used to have a friend who was so skinny I'm talking size 3 and xsmall to small and she would tell me all the time how fat she is. Which I understand everyone has their own body image issues. But when people constantly complain about something it can bring the vibes down.

Maybe just tell her straight up I'm sorry you have to deal with those boob issues but all you've been talking about is your boobs and I'm tired of hearing about it. Harsh I know but if you want her to stop you have to tell her too. Or you could maybe start ignoring her when she says such things. If she texts you about it ignore it and say something completely unrelated. I've learned a lot of times when people complain about their body like that they are just looking for attention and someone to tell them that they look good. They're just fishing for compliments. If they really didn't like it they wouldn't be constantly being attention to it.

[enis_Penvy]

That's all she has going for her is her boobs so she wants everyone to notice and admire them.
Tell her you have your own boobs and don't need to talk about hers. You have more than enough with yours. Any time she continues to change the topics to her breast just ignore it--just because she does this doesn't mean you have to listen to her and talk about it

[pharaoh_lover48118]

just go along woth that girl. I mean come on isn't that what friends are for. to talk about same crap that annoy u every day and hope that you will feel better after that.

[whattothink]

I would just ignore her. Or tell her if she hates them so much to get a reduction. I'm kind of petty and may even drive her to the plastic surgeon for a consultation myself if she really really really got on my nerves. Trust me you tell her enough times to shut up or bring up reduction she will calm down.

[Paris13]

Quickly Change the Sore Subject and End your Friend's Madness. She is Bragging.
She either Wants your Female Touch in your Own Opinion, or with You Enabling her to Brag, she is becoming This... Rag.
Be Polite if Trying to talk about the weather is not working. If she gets Huffy, consider Booby a Fair Weather Friend to the End.
Good luck. xx

[StarieNight]

I honestly can't blame your friend for complaining so much! I have huge tits and it causes so many problems for me. I would get a breast reduction if I had the opportunity but unfortunately I can't do that because I don't have enough money to afford it and plus, I am scared of sugery. I wish my boobs were small! Big tits are complicated...

[miamigirl1970]

Next time it comes up either do one of two things: Steer the conversation to something you want to complain about, and keep obsessing about that, she will get the hint, or when it comes up again, point blank ask her if her boobs cause her so much reflection, maybe she should consider getting to the bottom of her pain, surgery? something... try to point out that you are wanting her to move beyond the boobs already... best of luck

[Jackblue]

Tell her if they are that annoying get a reduction.

[Anonymous]

It's evident to me that she is quite selfish. She seems to not really care or put herself in anybody else's perspective. If you would like to tell her, you could say that you don't appreciate so much talk about the same thing, and that you understand but complaining doesn't fix anything.

[DarkHumorRUs]

If she's your friend you should just be able to say "shut the fuck up about your boobs dude".

[Roxannek]

Just tell her it annoys you, cause me personally I talk about my back pain and struggles with finding bras quite a buy but only if it comes up in conversation which when I talk to someone new it often becomes a talking point but I assume you are big but not huge so maybe like a dd so if so it can cause pain but just tell her it annoys you and you wish for her to stop talking about it so much

[KWF5960]

Next time she says it jokingly say "stop all the boob talk!" And laugh and come across as humorous. if she keeps on keeping on, get more serious and say "seriously, stop. Please."

[SarahsSummer]

You just tell her "I love you but everybody is well aware of your boobs, either accept what they are or get reduction surgery but please stop complaining about them all the time"

[Pink934]

She's clearly trying to fish for attention. She obviously likes her own boobs despite how much she tries to cover it up!

[Hos10]

I dunno, but it looks like she's so proud of them so you'll have to handle it delicately but if you're really fed up, slap her titties and tell her to get laid then come back to you when tits are out of her mind

[pooper89]

Breast reduction is a thing. Women do it. Suggest it to her

[RetroReviews]

How busty is your friend and is she single? LOL

[Manuel2]

I had a girlfriend who did this. She ask me to compare her boobs to other women and so on.
Usually she is not happy with her sex life and she might be a lesbian at heart.

[xCutesyLolitax]

start fund raising for a surgery at Kickstarter!^_^

[Anonymous]

I would just squeeze them and then pinch her nipples she will shut up then. Just tell her to shut up

[boobliker]

say<<<
show me them and say yes to whatever she is asking,,,

[DavidDivad]

I don't like she's complaining, I think she's rubbing it in your face.

Hey small boobs are better

[Anonymous]

Just how big ARE her boobs? What about the rest of her?

[LifeEqualsLove]

Tell her get a boob job & stfu 😂

[Allie_]

Just tell her to shut up

[maddog19]

tell her to embrace them.

[SmokeyTheGod]

Just tell her she sounds kinda dumb so be clear