Why is this guy so afraid to ruin our friendship if we start a relationship?

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lately we've talked about going on out on a date, cuddling, maybe kissing, and such.

but now he's scared that it's going to ruin our friendship, I understand he wants to go slow & that's fine. but he gets jealous about my guy friends then tells me he's fine with them but then he says no he doesn't like it..

he says he wants to take things slow because he doesn't want to rush into it like he did with his ex, and it didn't work out. he tells me one minute I can flirt with other guys but then tells me he doesn't like it if I did. I'm so confused. he says I am the only girl he flirts with, and that I am special.

why is he doing that?

*he's told me he really likes me, and he wants me to be his but he's scared to lose our friendship if something didn't work out

& when I say we've talked.. meaning he brought all of those topics about dating and so on 96% of the time. we are hanging out Sunday, when I told him my mom won't probably be home he got all like "mm so we are going to be alone, huh ;)" plus we are going to prom together which is a day before my birthday.

he knew I was upset that he said he just wants to take things slow and hang out more and be just friends before making it official that he went home right after school because his phone died when we were talking about it instead of going to track and his friends house to charge his phone and talk to me..
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Why is this guy so afraid to ruin our friendship if we start a relationship?
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