Why are all my friends sluts/hoes?

[Anonymous]

so I find it strange that every friend I make is usually a slut or has had a sexual past. Like I'm the opposite I only had sex with one person & carry myself as a respectable lady although I do wear revealing clothes at times. But my friends on the other hand are loosy gooses and they have sex with just about any guy they meet or gives them the slightest attention. Now I'm not judging them or anything because I don't slut shame & it's not my body so I could careless but I'm just curious why a lot of girls I become friends with are sluts? 🤔 While I'm the opposite & lack sexual experience. Why is that?

[madmarta]

To everybody saying that she's judging them and not being a good friend. Well, first of all, since when saying the truth makes you judgemental? She says they're sluts, because they're sluts, not because she's judging them. If she judged them and didn't like how they live she probably wouldn't be friends with them anymore. And second of all, she's just sharing that with the Internet anonymously, not with everyone she knows trying to offend them. And now I'm going to answer her question: because nowadays 90% of the girls are sluts and 95% of the boys are players. The morals of today's society is super low and nowadays hooking up with random people is considered normal. You probably pick friends that are open, fun and like to party hard right? Because you like partying too, you just prefer not to sleep with everyone when you're drunk. Now, you can leave your fun friends and start hanging out with boring losers who don't go out and nothing happens to them and they won't be sluts, but you'd be really bored. I know all this because I had different girlfriends over the years and I myself enjoy going out and I often see what you see- your friends hooking up with anyone. And I just like you, prefer not to do this. Well, my sexual experience is not one man, I'm just not going to bed with guys easy, or as easy as my friends do. And I personally don't care what other people might say, I just don't sleep with those guys because I don't want them and I'm very picky. I hope, i answered your question somehow: fun friends nowadays= sluts

[Asker]

Omggg yesss u nailed it right on !!! I like to party and my friends are super fun but slutty lol & me not so much. & I have a friend that doesn't go out & not slutty but she's very boring to the point I get annoyed being with her. So I'll take slutty friends for $200 please! 😭

[Emiko]

You don't lack sexual experiences you just don't have as much as them. And if you don't like it why are you friends with them? As to why they are like that, no one truly knows, but I think it's funny that you say you are not slut shaming when clearly you just called them sluts... great job with that one you even called them "loosy gooses" what a good friend you are. Or here's another suggestion, why don't you ask them yourself and see what they say? I mean if your not trying to offend them I'm sure they won't be bothered by it!!!

[Anonymous]

I think it means you don't have prejudices lol
prudes who think they're better than "sluts" stick together and since (apparently) you're not like that you have promiscuous friends who won't judge you for your love life, or lack of it 😊
I befriend whoever I want, regardless of how many sexual partners this person had

[BrileyCat]

i have a feeling the friends you're talking about are not sluts .
they may be active sexually . but its pure speculation on my part .
you are probably exaggerating . jealous of them . feel insecure due to
your lack of experience .

[Bandit74]

"Now I'm not judging them or anything because I don't slut shame"

Lol, you clearly are judging them. You reffered to them as slut/hoes and implied that you carry yourself with respect while they don’t.

I am honestly not offended by slut shaming. I don't view them in a favorable light either, but at least I can own up to it. It's just funny your whole question reeks of you judging them but then you try to claim that you don't judge them.

[spassticer]

you can call your friends "sluts" as in acting in a promiscuous way, without judging them. it depends if you're tsk tsking at them or looking at it as negative. it's more of a choice, a lifestyle that may change once they decide they want to do something else, or get serious. sluttiness isn't a character trait, more of an action or a state of activity.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you come off as a non-judgmental person. People notice that almost instantly. I genuinely believe you don't judge them but using slut/hoe makes me think other wise.

I never understood why another persons promiscuity mattered to them. As society, we look down upon the wrong people. There are some genuine monsters in society that seem to get a pass.

[CheerGirl38139]

"Now I'm not judging them or anything because I don't slut shame & it's not my body so I could careless but I'm just curious why a lot of girls I become friends with are sluts?"

😂😂 good one 👌

[spassticer]

maybe they feel less threatened by you since you're not a slut and competing with them for men.

maybe it's because you're not judging them for their sexuality. many women do. so they see that and feel comfortable.

[Wonderer89]

A friend doesn't speak about their friends like this, and calling your friends sluts and hoes does not make you a respectable lady.

[brave1997]

Maybe it's the kind of friends you attract. You shouldn't judge friends. I had a bad experience with that and almost lost my best friend because I was always judging her

[HOAAH]

I think the sluts or whatever are More outgoing and friendly because they don't care if people judge them and they are able to easily befriend guys

[Anonymous]

You are what you eat...
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[FakeName123]

Because ironically sluts look down at other sluts and rather are friends with girls who aren't.

[etakyug]

Slut shaming your friends? Really? You sound like a terrible friend. How does another persons sexuality affect you?

[Gommers]

Women are hard to be friends with. Take it from a guy who's friends with all the women who hate other women because "they're fucking crazy".

[beachflamingo]

I have the opposite problem lol

[madhatters4]

where do you tend to make friends?

[SarahsSummer]

You may be a bit insecure.

[Thrifty]

Introduce me to your friends.

[tayoker]

absentmindedly maybe you're a one

[Anonymous]

Birds of a feather flock together

[Anonymous]

They don't feel threatened by you