My cousin likes my boyfriend. What the hell should I do?

[Nittah]

ok what should I do?

My cousin likes my boyfriend and she is constantly hanging out with his family to impress them. My boyfriend can't stand her and doesn't like her, but she is really breaking the relationship with me and his family. She tries to flirt with him and she makes things for his family.

I'm not the only one who sees through her plans other friends see it to. She plays innocent and sweet and acts as if she knows nothing. What do I do?

She was over his house doing zumba with his mom and sister when she knows that me and my friend do zumba with them. She is trying to take over my life she even toke the job I wanted and said that I didn't want it and she rubs it in my face.

Please everyone I need lots of advice. Please share stories if something like this happened to you.

[acka72]

Fortunately for you, you are dating him and not his family. First off ignore her. The more pissed off or annoyed you get the more power to her. Secondly, spend more time with your boyfriend away from families and your crazy assed cousin. So that while she's Zumbaing her way with your mother and sister in law you are doing something fun with him. Encourage him to go on fishing trips with his friends and then invite his mother and sister to dine with you and your mother or father sans cousin. The last thing you want your boyfriend to see is that you feel threatened by her.

[Nittah]

Thanks for the advice. Its been pretty hard trying not to let it get to me. But because of it I feel weird around them sometimes because I feel like she has been saying stuff them and they don't know if the should believe it or not

[Anonymous]

I would tell her off explainging to her that she's been crossing the line which could damage your relationship

[TheGam3r]

You need to confront her and not doing it gently. She is walking over you and you can't let any person do that to you, ever. Get your boyfriend to confront her too if you can, but make sure you get your point across. You can get help from parents (yours or hers) if you are in the right age group.

[ashtonm]

F*** no. Break the code, you get the boot!

Family or not. Respect and loyalty means a lot to me. I'd let her know she's crossing over your boundaries.

[Nittah]

If this was happening to you and your girlfriend what would do? I mean would you make sure your family knows that her cousin is not good to be around and that she constantly lies?

[ashtonm]

I actually had a similar situation once. My cousin hit on my ex, and I warned him to back off. I ended up finding out he did it again, and I haven't spoken to him since. I don't think all people would do what I did, but I don't tolerate people who are hurtful.

[Anonymous]

Was your boyfriend there during Zumba?

[Nittah]

yes he was he was texting me but that doesn't help how I feel about the matter. its confusing

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he secretly has a thing for her?