let's say a shy 22 year old girl has never had a boyfriend, she has had some guys approach her, but not really the most physically appealing ones (any guy below decent). would you assume she's probably an uggo?
also, is it true that guys have become more "feminine" throughout the recent years? As in they prefer more aggressive women?
No, there are a lot of other reasons for not getting a boyfriend or girlfriend. One of the main (and most important) reason is they have not found the correct person to be in a relationship with. There is not much point to rush into a relationship that does not last. stay happy and be confident!
Not necessarily, the thing that change is girl can play a more 'man' role such as taking the initiative to talk to the guy she likes, taking the initiative to ask the guy out etc. Not necessarily means guys like more violent/rude women.
No, that does not make that 22 year old shy girl ugly. I myself, at the age of 24 am really shy and I've only had one relationship stemming from high school into my young adulthood. Just because you're shy, that doesn't mean you're ugly.
As far as guys becoming feminine, not sure on that one. What exactly do you mean by "aggressive?"
that does happen a lot to unattractive people but it can also happen to pretty people too, mostly the ones who are so insecure that its like repellent men. If you told me that you've never had a boyfriend (and not by choice) then I would probably assume your not attractive but that doesn't mean its true, there could be many reasons for it...
And yes with women are liberated, its more acceptable for women to approach men and be active in the search for companionship but most men don't expect women to make the first move and prefer an even mix of passiveness and aggressiveness.
I have a couple friends who have never had a boyfriend. Heck, I've only had one boyfriend..and that wasn't even 3 months. I don't think any of us are ugly. I'd say the vibe you give off is more likely the "problem" than your looks. If a girl doesn't look interested most guys aren't going to risk approaching-getting shot down isn't the greatest feeling. I know that's my "problem", although I don't want a boyfriend so when I don't look interested it really means I'm not interested.
I'm 21 and have never had a boyfriend. I've also been told I'm attractive by a few guys. Maybe most of the guys she's been interested in are taken or just not her type or are better as friends, maybe she's too shy. There are many possible reasons. The attractiveness of the guys who approach her doesn't tell much about how attractive she is.
Never assume. And honestly this is total bs. I'm 20, about to be 21 and I've never had a boyfriend either...and not to sound conceded or anything but I'm not bad looking. Also, I've seen some ugly mofos with boyfriends. Guess its just a mixed bag...