Well, ok, I was asked out once or twice, but it was just some random guys at my school, so it might have been a joke. idk.
I don't think I'm ugly or anything; my hair's fine, and I'm in pretty good shape. I don't wear makeup, but whatever.
I have a handful of guy-friends that I'll talk with, and I think a couple of them might have liked me, but I'm not sure (I don't get to see some of them very often). I act naturally around them, so I don't make an effort to flirt or anything -I'm just me.
So what's the problem?
If some guys could explain anything here, that'd be great.
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If there is one thing that strikes me about human nature, it's reciprocation.
Smile at someone and they're more likely to smile back at you. Laughter can be contagious, and so can be retaliation.
Part of what guys find attractive about girls is the attention girls give them in the first place (that indicates they are interested). Because people fear rejection, they often communicate in more subtle means. Flirting is one such indirect means to show interest.
The problem is likely that you haven't shown enough interest to guys you're interested in. Consequently, they either never get to know you or don't pursue you because they think you don't like them back.1