Well I was seeing a guy who was really short compared to me, he saw me basically as a piece of property and would only acknowledge my existence whenever he felt like it. I was really miserable with the guy, even though we only hanged out twice, and he treated me as though I couldn't do anything. Then I was meeting up with this one guy who was taller than me and he treated me like a piece of shit and made a fool of myself. After these two guys, I really did not care for men.
Then I met Matt, who is my first and current boyfriend, and he's about the same height as me. He treats me like an individual, he attempts to be there for me, and I always have fun with him. So to answer your question, I prefer a man who treats me the same way my boyfriend treats me. Along with being close to my height.