How do I get my girlfriend to wear high heels?

I think high heels look hot, but my girlfriend says that she doesn't feel comfortable with anything over 3" (balance, foot comfort). How can I encourage her to wear something higher, like up to 3.5"?


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  • I like this question because I wear at least 3-4" heels on a daily basis...and I don't think my Boyfriend likes it cause I'm taller than him in them, lol. I'd say if comfort is the biggest reason she won't wear them to find some heels that are optimal in that department. Usually heels with a wedge are more comfortable than skinny heels. Here is a link I found: link

    Answer mine please? link

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What Girls Said 23

  • Wut... do you have any idea how uncomfortable it can be for some girls to wear high heels? Try walking around in them for a long time and pick nice high ones and you'd see. It's really not for everyone. It can hurt your feet too, especially after a long night... it takes balance...and some girls just can't walk right in them. I have these super tall heels and when I wear them I literally have to watch my every move, focus on my walking and that's all I can think about the whole time... so now I don't wear them anymore. It's such a hassle to have to worry about falling and/or looking like a pelican walking on stilts... I'd recommend you try heels yourself and then decide if it's such a easy thing to do. You cannot make a girl love something that makes her feel uncomfortable.

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  • Is she willing to wear the 3" heels? If so, what's the problem, not high enough for you? Geez, you guys can be tough.If she's willing to wear 3" heels, without a problem, I'd accept that, and consider yourself fortunate. Many girls won't even wear those, or any type of high heel. You're already 3" ahead of the game. Just enjoy what you've got, and maybe take her shopping for more.

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  • ill wear it if you wear it.

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    • Actually, if you know your history, the heel was originally meant for men, not women

  • If she doesn't feel comfortable in them, don't make her.

    High heels can be pretty uncomfortable. Unless you've walked for a day in 3.5" yourself and not complain, you really don't have the right to demand her to wear them.

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  • Personally I love heels and wear the highest ones I can, because I'm short. I have good balance so I can wear pretty high ones, too. Though, some girls just find it too difficult to walk or they don't feel comfortable wearing them. I know some girls that can't walk in shoes with one inch heels and others that flat out refuse to wear them. Just be glad that she wears them at all. Keep in mind that high heels aren't natural so it takes time to be able to wear them. They're also meant for looks not to be easy to walk in and they certainly aren't meant to be comfortable. If she doesn't want to don't ask her to go outside her comfort zone.

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  • High heels are a pain in the ass. If she doesn't want to wear them, then she doesn't want to wear them. Pushing her to do it will make her want to wear them even less.

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  • Why would you want to compromise her comfort for your own pleasure? If she's really not that into heels, don't try to make her wear them.

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  • Tell her to try wedges! That's how I comfortably wear heels. You can easily get the high-heel effect of 4-inches while your foot is only angled two or three inches. Also they are really easy to walk in!

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  • Buy her a nice designer pair that has a high rating of comfort.

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    • Please I'm a dancer I'm doing stunts on relev? equivalent to wearing a 6" heel but instead have to keep myself up without anything under my foot. Or how about pointe work which is more painful than wearing an 8" heel. Heels aren't uncomfortable and 5-6" wedges to me are like walking on clouds.

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    • God damnit releve*

    • best answer!

  • Well girls like to make their man happy so when she is in a store shopping for shoes just pick up a shoe you think is sexy and have a higher heel(start her off with 3.5 and let her master that then move up a half) and once she sees that you like the shoe she has no other choice but to wear them.Convince her in a flirty and sexy way and even buy her lingerie to match.

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  • You're already lucky she wear 3" heels. Above that, it's so difficult to walk and it hurts so bad. Don't force her, you can be sexy without hurting your feet.

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  • I hope your girl friend is wise enough not to do anything because you want her to. You will have to take her as she is, not try to change her.

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  • does it matter whether she wears it?if you truly love her, you should accept her preference

    heels are actually bad for our spine, and not encouraged to wear often. it looks nice but uncomfortable and unhealthy

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  • Just tell her it looks hot and ask if she would wear them sometime

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  • That's a perfect Idea! Buy them for her! it is not a garentee she will wear them, but if the option is there for her (and assuming she likes the style, color, blah, blah, blah) she might wear them

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  • Just ask

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  • Ever see the Stephen King movie Misery?

    Tie her up, break her knees and then put the shoes on her.

    No for real. If she don't wanna then RESPECT HER CHOICE

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  • Ouch High heels are painful, you should try wearing them.

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  • She doesn't want to so leave her alone.

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  • You can't. She doesn't want to wear them so don't push her

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  • I understand your girlfriend I personally do not wear high heals for the same reason, also I have big breast, I am short and high heels make me head over, and I look totally ridiculous, you need to except her for what she likes.

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  • BUY THEM :)

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  • Don't make her wear them! If she's not comfortable in them then why make her wear them? Unless you plan on giving her a foot massage for an hour after!

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What Guys Said 3

  • Ask her directly.

    Start by giving her recognition of what she's doing for you, letting her know you respect her reasons and understand them, and then pop the question. You can get a loving girlfriend to do almost anything in the world for you so long as you're intuitive and nurturing in the way you go about asking.

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  • I'm gonna tell you something and listen up because I really mean this; there is nothing sexier on this Earth, believe me ladies and gentlemen, than a woman in a good pair of stiletto heel pumps (it takes a certain elegance and grace to walk in them, and a woman's legs just looks so elongated and sexy in them). That being said, my last girlfriend knew I liked them, but she would not wear them. However she did go out and bought herself a pair of earrings in the shape of high heel pumps. She showed them to me one day and said she bought them in tribute to me. I thought it was a very sweet gesture on her part. I didn't care if she never wore those shoes, I loved her for who she was and appreciated everything she did for me. Several years back I did buy a pair of really nice pumps for a lady friend (not a girlfriend) of mine on her 21st birthday, although to do date she has never worn them and they are just sitting in a box in her closest collecting dust lol. So no luck in seeing my friend wearing them.

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  • High heels deform women's feet. Why would you want to have a girlfriend with deformed feet?

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