I absolutely HATE when girls play hard to get! Girls are confusing enough to guys, but when you start purposefully sending off mixed signals and playing mind games, it just leaves me totally confused and absolutely annoyed. If I ever see a girl who is playing hard to get, I instantly stop trying, because most of the time its nearly impossible. Honesty and communication is the most important thing in a relationship, and when girls play hard to get, there just no hope. Also, if I see a girl playing hard to get, that's an automatic turnoff because that shows that they think dating is a game. Personally, if I get rejected in any way, I take that for what it means, so if you say no I will take it as a no, and back off. If you play hard to get you are just toying with guys minds, and no one likes a player.