He never asks me anything?

[Anonymous]

so I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks. I like him, and he always tells me how much I mean to him and stuff. I always have to ask him questions about him tho-which he'll answer. He never asks me anything about me tho. its like he doesn't care. I asked him about this, and he says that he knows about me, and he knows I'm down for him and stuff. If your with someone tho, don't you want to know about them, or what? What does it mean that he don't really ask me questions like, personal questions? is he just not that question-tive, or what..?

[sara-t]

Red flag dear, seriously. I know you won't want to hear it. But, if a guy is into you, he WILL ask you things and he WILL be interested. There is no other way around it.

I was in your EXACT situation a few months ago with a new guy, and I had the exact same question. He didn't ask me personal things about myself, hell, he rarely even cared to know how my day went.

Tell him something like "I'd really appreciate if you expressed interest in getting to know me" etc., if he doesn't shape up, that means he's not into you.

When a guy is really into you, he'll do a lot of things to make you happy and he'll want to know who YOU are as a person.

[Anonymous]

weird, cause if I liked someone more than physically I'd want to get to know the person more and I'd be asking all kinds of questions unless those topics just came up when we talked. the more personal things you freely talk about while hanging out I think is a better indicator of how much that person cares about your life and therefore you. if they are truly comfortable around you and want to be around you, then they should open up and you two should talk with each other about those type of things, like what type of person you are lol