I'd be more careful,if I were you.He makes a lot of references to how hot you are and your body.Do you and him do anything besides have sex? I'd back off on being FWBs and see how your friendship develops.Men can seem like they want a relationship when their getting booty from you.It isn't always what they really want.Being FWB's can be emotional,it's basically a boyfriend or girlfriend filler til you find someone else that you want a deeper relationship with.I'm not saying it can't develop into that.I've seen it happen before.I would just not base his feelings based on him being touchy or sleeping with you a lot.Doesn't mean he wants you as his girl...could mean he's just getting something out of this without the strings.Some Men often will tell girls things like I love you,just to keep the girl interested.They even will pay for dinner when you go out.Doesn't mean he wants you as his girlfriend though.I'd talk to him about how you feel and see what he says.Just be careful not to fall hard for him yet.
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He obviously cares a lot about you and it sounds like he wants to take things further than just being friends with benefits. You can't judge anything off of him not texting you during the week because you don't either and he's brought that up. If you like him and want something more from him then you need to stop being stubborn and text him. Open up more to him. There's no rules as to how often FWB hook up, its when things are convenient and both people want it. I think that if you don't want to have anything further with him then maybe its in both of your best interests to end things. The last thing you want is him falling for you even more than he already has.
he obviously wants to get back together, the whole point of friends with benifits is that you DONT care, you DONT say I love you, you DONT have any feelings, its striclty physical, nd everything you said is the exact opposite of that so yeah he definitely does want more
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It seems ya'll have a pretty complicated past between you two. I think you two just need to sit down and have a real heart to heart to see exactly where you stand and what you actually want out of this. It is impossible to have friends with benefits with no feelings to me personally, but especially with someone who you used to date and you clearly have feelings for. This is nearly the EXACT opposite of FWBs lol.
Maybe this is an opportunity to try and mend the wounds of yesterday and start anew tomorrow.Men say this isn't true (they call it games) but this is a prime example. Men want you more when you don't want them. Men love a woman they can have a fun, no relationship pressure relationship with and if you add good sex that makes it worse lol.I did exactly the same thing.We broke up, stayed friends, then friends with benefits and then he wanted me back, I held off for a month and then we got back together and broke up again 6 months later over the exact same issue we had before lol. So really think about the importance of what it was that ended it the first times cause that didn't go away. I just wasted 6 more months that I couldve been with someone else or happily alone lol.
maybe he is too scared to get involved in a full blown relationship if you weren't nice to him before. so he is making the most of it at the moment, and the fact that you're not in a relationship, if his feelings get too deep he can easily walk away and not feel 'guilty'.
when I had a friends with benefits, he would call me his girlfriend and his friends would too, this confused me a bit at the time.
you should ask him straight out, are we bedfriends or exclusive to each other. good luck! :)It sounds like he has feelings for you and wants to be in a real relationship with you, but you are the one who doesn’t want it to be serious?
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