She brought her friend at the last second on our third date?

[Anonymous]

Hi everyone, Now, I really like this girl. and down to the point now. We were suppose to go out and see a movie and get dinner together etc. But as I wait for her (half way we meet up) She texted me telling me if its OK that her friend comes along.. so of course I said sure that's fine. Then, we meet up. and it was funny that she dressed a little more fancy then the previous two times. I greeted her friend (which is a female friend) and we were gonna drive across to the movie theater. And she tells me, that She doesn't like people in the back seat of her car.. so I'm like alright. And she tells me to text her when I get there. And as we get there I was going to pay for her ticket..and she says no its fine cause she had to pay for her friend. So I just went along with it. We get to the theater of the movie were gonna see. So as the movie was playing I first then put my hand on her leg asking her if she was cold and she said she was fine. Because I saw her tucking in her arms a lot. So I couldn't really hold her hand, I tried putting my arm around her, but she was kinda tucked in her seat so it ended up being like it was silly thing. >_>

So then I left it alone til the movie ended. And once the movie ended she said she had to make a phone call on her phone, so she goes in the bathroom with her friend. So then they come out the same time as well. And after wards we go outside, go to her car, and her mother called and texted her saying they wanted her home because of her uncle being in the hospital and what not. She even said she wanted today out longer (because of our plans of taking her to dinner etc) So then I said bye to her friend, then she was going to go in her car, so then I said wanna hug? So then, I hugged her and I whispered that I like her. then she said goodbye to me and smiled.

Now, with all of this, this is the third date..well not really a date. But when I got home my friend knew her for a longer time then myself, so I asked her advice, and she says she probably brought her friend because that her friend wanted to be the supervisor, to see if I'm not a mean or an asshole. But I think I presented myself pretty well. And I found it weird that she wasn't as affectionate as the previous date. (we kissed and snuggled athe 2nd date). But this time around she dressed a little more dressy if that makes sense.I also complimented her when I saw her telling her she looked very pretty. She's seems hard to read, as well as her emotions to to open up. And when our date was suppose to happen earlier in the week told me sorry,and she really wanted to see me. was it bad that I whispered her when I hugged her saying I liked her?I texted her when I got home and kept it simple, saying that I enjoyed being around her again, and her friend seemed cool, and the movie etc and hope her uncle is OK and hope to see her soon etc. thought I'd get more advice. and thought on the situation from you guys and girls.Thank you for taking the time to listen and respond

[Honey123]

I think the reason purhaps for her not being as close to you is mayb because her friend was there and mayb found it a bit uncomfortable. And mayb the reason for the friend to come was to meet you but I do agree that all the other stuff was a bit weird but I know most girls like to go to the bathroom and have a little gossip time I know that I would but I also know that I would never bring a friend on a date. And mayb for the bit where she got more dressed up mayb it was because she felt she hadn't dressed up the past 2 times. xx hope everything works out.

[Asker]

Thanks Honey123. That helped thanks. Because the previous two dates she was totally fine and everything. and (I forgot if I mentioned some things in my question. but she did tell me she really wanted to see me last time she couldn't make it on our next date.which was earlier in the week. One more thing, was when I hugged her and whispered I liked her a bad thing? I really wanted to show her somehow that I cared. my friend told me not to contact her for a day to give her the day to herself.

[sarahruth]

yeah that's odd ! I would never bring a friend as a third wheel, but as your female friend said it pro was for "permission" to date you that you know you are a decent fella ! I won't worry about it to be honest , it seems she still likes you the fact she was sorry she had to go ! so your in luck !:)

[probabilist]

bi*ches be crazy dude... she might be creeped out by you, or isn't as interested as she was the 1st two dates and wanted to bring her friend as a buffer. No idea though, good luck.