How to make someone feel bad for leading me on?

[Anonymous]

OK so a guy a few months back told everyone he wanted o ask me out but I didn't believe anyone about that. Then over the summer we lost touch and now that I'm back in school ( junior) he started flirting with me and talking to me and I thought that he might ask me out. Then I found out that e recently got a girlfriend over the summer. He still acts the same and were still friends but its eating at me.I'm not heartbroken or upset but I'm really angry. So how do I make him him feel bad for not saying anything when he liked me, then leading me on, and not telling a good friend he had a girlfriend?( Please don't tell me not to make him feel bad or any be a good person hodo. I just need answers. And if you tell me not to I'll do it anyways so please help)

[udolipixie]

1. How to make someone feel bad for leading me on? Break up his relationship by telling his girlfriend that you two slept together & he cheated on her.

Make sure to set it up beforehand by texting him, texting him when he's with her, being touchy but still friendly touching, and creating your own inside jokes with him.

2. So how do I make him him feel bad for not saying anythig when he liked me, then leading me on, and not telling a good friend he had a girlfriend?

Why should he feel bad for not saying anything when he liked you. It's his choice whether to pursue or not. If you wanted him to pursue you should have gone after himself yourself or believed it when you heard it

Exactly when did he lead you on? <= this is the only reasonable thing to make him feel bad for

Also why is he obligated to tell you he has a gf? Some people keep personal matters unknown to their friends & didn't you too lose touch over the summer...the summer when he got his girlfriend. lol

[Asker]

We didn't completly loose touch we just didn't see each other as much and I wished he would of told me because apparently everyone else knew. and he's been leading me since... Forever. I don't want him to break up with his girlfriend and I don't want to be with him I just want him to think " I could have had her but I'm stuck with someone else."

[udolipixie]

How did he lead you on? If it was just people saying he likes you that's not leading you on.

" I could have had her but I'm stuck with someone else." The only way you could get him to think that is if he still had feelings for you and it doesn't seem like he does.

[Asker]

So continuous flirting and always wanting to hang out with someone isn't a sign that someone likes you? In that case nvm.

[udolipixie]

Flirting and wanting to hang out with you isn't leading you on.

[Anonymous]

Maye he just liked you as a friend. Maye he's not leading you on. men and women can be friends. WHen you learn that you may find you are don't get that upset about unimportant issues such as these.

[Asker]

He liked me as a friend therefore he told my best friend and random people I don't even know that e was going to Ask me out? Got it :)

[Opinion Owner]

You said that they said that BEFORE the summer, so BEFORE the new girl friend. Meaning his feelings have probabl changed, or he still likes you but he is more interested in his girl friend so only wants you as a friend. You are behaving foolishly, and you are creating unnecessary drama, no one likes a drama queen.

[italykam]

Ignore him and don't talk to him?