Is my boss attracted to me?

[Redd7899]

I have a new boss and he is so cool with me! We talk all the time, work & personal subjects. We are both married and speak of our spouse's from time to time, but it's like we're on the same page on so many things. I don't have to say a word, he just knows when I need to ask him a question. I had a really sore throat a couple of weeks ago and he ran to the store to get me some throat lozenges & wouldn't let me give him money for it. I feel like I know just about everything about him and it's only been 3 weeks. What is your opinion? Thank You

[parkway]

He is called a work husband. The woman at work who performs similar to a wife at home. Feelings approach that similar to love but it should not cross the line. meet the wife if you do not wish to cross the line. The benefits is success when ti works out well.

Good luck,

[Redd7899]

I am not attracted to him in that way, I just want to make sure I'm reading him correctly. I have thought about having him & his wife over one evening or going out. I think that's the best thing to do now. I had an overly friendly boss at my last job & didn't realize it until he crossed the line with me & I don't want that to happen at my new job. I love this job & I think he and I could be good friends, you know?

[Mrsupaakeru]

You're married. I think he likes you on a professional level, it seems like you may even be good friends. You seem to want him to like you on a romantic level. That's dangerous when you are married. The question should really be why do you want him to be attracted to you?

[Redd7899]

Actually, my husband and I haven't been married for 2 years yet so we are still caught-up in the romance :-) I want him to like me, but not like me in a romantic way. I just want to make sure I am reading him correctly, he wants to take me to lunch so I need some opinions. I'm told I don't notice when a man is flirting with me, so I want to make sure I'm not missing something. I really like him as a boss and a friend. Maybe I should invite him & his wife over one evening, that should work huh?

[Mrsupaakeru]

That's a great idea!

[Anonymous]

it doesn't mean he likes you as more than work friends

[prophecy]

well, it depends how hot you are. if you're hot then he's attracted, if not, then he's just a nice guy.

simple as that.

the question here is, are you attracted to him?

[Redd7899]

I think he's a great guy, but I don't think he's wild enough for me. My husband of almost 2 years is pretty tame sexually speaking, and I think he is even more so :-) So, No I am not attracted to him in that way, but I really like him as a guy friend.

[Raiden]

If your think its OK to cheat then don't be upset if your man does it too.

[Redd7899]

I don't understand why people think I want to cheat, I don't. I just want to get my new job off on the right foot. My husband tells me I don't notice when a man is flirting with me, so I wanted some opinions on his behavior. I love my hubby of almost 2 years and my job :-)

[Raiden]

Ok my opinion is not to get close because he might ask you out and you say no and things will go sh*tty, so try to always act busy so he doesn;t get the chance to get to know you.

[moddalsatti]

he probable hates his wife and needs some female company ...just saying.

Think he likes you.

[Redd7899]

They have been married since they graduated high school, so you might be right :-) Thanks