I suspect you're running into cultural difference rather than racial ones. Guys like attractive girls - period. But there may be an assumption that, based on appearance, that there is a culture gap between you and he. Culture gaps are difficult to deal with, and so some guys may be reluctant if they think that's an issue. Of course, it might not be an issue at all, but he might not know that until he gets to know you better.
The way you solve that problem is by being more outgoing and direct with the white guys (assuming you prefer them) and less so with the others. That will encourage the white guys and give them more confidence with you.
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lol white people are exotic to some people too you know... We're all exotic to someone. Getting that out of the way I've been attracted to girls all over the spectrum. I don't care what race or ethnic background she is from.
I'm in the same situation as you! Basically what you described, but I'm half white half Southeast Asian. One thing to consider is that guys from some other cultures like Hispanic or Middle Eastern are more vocal and open about hitting on girls, so that makes it seem like they're more attracted to you. But still, just the general feeling I've gotten throughout my life is that white guys want to date "normal" white girls. I mean I've mostly dated white guys, but yeah it doesn't seem like they hit on me as much.
I am the same mix as you half white and South India. I am the same coloring as Kim Kardashian as well. I think it depends on the area you live in. I also think that the way white men flirt is not as in your "face" as Hispanic men They do not ask you to "marry them" right away like Indian and Arab men because flirting in white culture is more subtle. I have had black, Hispanc, Indian, Arab and white men hit on me. I am not trying to sound full of myself.
i'm white, and come to think of it, i hardly ever get hit on by white men. i get hit on a lot by black, Asian, and latino men. i guess white men in general don't flirt as much?
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White guys generally prefer white women
But if they do date or marry interracially, they're more likely to date or marry a Hispanic or Asian woman.
Everyone has different opinions on what exotic is. Being mixed doesn't automatically make a person exotic or mean that they look exotic.
And generally speaking, what is exotic to minorities is not exotic to whites. To white men you may just look Indian.1. Most people prefer to date their own race.
2. Whites are generally a lot more holding back in terms of flirting and dating. As you said how the arabic guy proposes (and probably never plans to go through with it), a lot white guys (and their cultures) ain't doing something like that.im English caucasion , one of my all time fantasies is to have a sexy Indian woman I love the thought its such a turn on and a Chinese woman too, would love to chat about it if you want to xx
I personally like every ethnicity and don't really have much preference. I also don't hit on girls overtly though.
I like that "exotic" look. I don't know why other white guys wouldn't approach you. Maybe other guys don't feel the same as me.
no just find the white guy who like girls like you there will be one.
Some guys do. Some guys don't.
I do like exotic girls.I like all women (except for Somalian, PUKE).
depends on the person
I can't speak for all white men but I like exotic
i think they can like all types of women
Most like exotic women.
Depends on the guy but most prefer white girls
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Every white guys preference is different
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