a person with expirence is always more desired than a person who knows nothing. Think about jobs and resumes. The less the boss has to pay for you to get some training, the easier it is on the boss. Why spend time and money to train you when he can already hire someone who is qualified.
If the girl needs a guy for a specific job.lets say she is looking for a f*** or so and she wants one right now and she wants the job done right. Then she is gonna want to choose the guy with the expirence. the one who has the knowledge/confidence to get the job done. She does not want to have to train the guy, watch him get nervous and flaccid a few times, end up getting turned off and unsatisfied and then after some months or maybe even a year of training the guy and helping him get his confidence up she finally gets that really great f*** that she has been desiring. That's too much time she has wasted when she could have just gotten that really good f*** from a more expirenced guy a long time ago.
many guys would rather f*** a sexual woman than a virgin also. (at least here in the usa. and if we were talking about thoes other countries, the Muslim ones, then the guy is gonna want to marry the virgin who knows how to cook and clean).
say a girl wants a loving relationship. only a dumb girl would go after the guy who is unsure of what he wants (chances are she is unsure too which is why she is chasing that guy in the first place) She wants to date a guy who has gotten some life expirence. one who can confidently say "I am ready to love you". And she is sure that she can trust his words because he has been around the world, or has been through drama with other women or he has finally become sattisfied with his career that now the one thing he is missing is that love which he desires.
im sure you have noticed the people who dive into relationships before they get some life expirence. You know, at an early age. They get married in their early twinties and have kids. Then later on they realize that they missed out on going to college, or living that party life style, or sleeping with a bunch of girls, traveling, and now they desire it more than being in the relationship.
you can't know one thing without the other link (you can't know good without the bad) some people chose love early on and want to expirence other important things later on in life. they admit to themselves that they were just too young/immature (inexpirenced) after the relationship fails. Then there are people who want to gain some life expirence first (mature) and then find love.
would you want to go into a relationship with someone who is too immature? or one who is knowledgeable?
Well, I am definitely the woman you are talking about. I love older men especially in their 40's. I think the wisdom/ insight that they have is so attractive. They are typically established and know what they want out of life. They also are at a point in life where they want to settle down with a woman and they have reached most of their goals. They now want to share their lives with someone else. It makes it easier to value and trust the opinion of someone who has been in your position before. When you take the mans advice and it works it makes them even more attractive. Also by 40 they have had time to explore who they are and mature. They are more patient and more into the woman and fulfilling her needs and desires over their own. Conversation is also better. Also they realize the more important things in a relationship. They are not just focused on physical or superficial things. This is not true for all men, but quite a few that I know. I can't imagine being with a man my age...I have tried my age, younger and older...for me I just love an older man. Just the presence of a mature man gives me chills. Not all older men are as I have described. Some can be totally ridiculous, but the odds are better.
I love when guys are really sure of themselves and know what they’re doing, because I’m not sure of myself and usually don’t know what I’m doing. When an experienced guy steps up and takes the lead, he is showing assertiveness, which I think is attractive. I’m guessing that experience is what makes these guys so confident and sure of themselves in the first place, and confidence is definitely attractive. So experience = assertiveness/confidence. I also like how safe I feel with experienced guys who know what they’re doing. And of course, there is the excitement factor. Being introduced to new things can be really fun and exciting.
Explained to me multiple times and through my experiences. As we get older and become more experienced we learn or SHOULD know how to pleasure a woman the way a woman needs to be pleasured. Younger guys take their ladies for advantage and continue to disappoint and as older and experienced man catches on very quickly that a woman is a gift that doesn't last unless respected as the miracle they are. She is not an object to hump on. they are an instrument that when played right will make beautiful music for you. A happy satisfied woman is a happy successful man in love.
EVERY WOMAN:
Strong and independent what can weather the storms. She is still a delicate flower that needs water and sunshine. Feed and respect her and her roots grow around you !
~me :), 11/12/13
I don't like the sound of it at all. Sounds more like the sheep want a shepard. I want an equal partnership in a relationship and not cradle a baby.
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Experience is knowledge and with that comes confidence. It's much more attractive to be with someone who knows what he wants and how to get it. Women tend to expect men to lead and men who have experience know this and also know how to lead. And when it comes to sex, the guys below already said it.
Personally, I like guys a few years older than me. And yes, experience is one of the reasons. But mostly its maturity. Which tends to go hand in hand with experience.
Experience is knowledge. Knowledge is power. Power is guidance and wisdom. Guidance and wisdom are necessary to care for anything. Therefore Experience is a core to caretaking and therefore protecting.
I don't think they care that much. Its overplayed.
Essentially they like the guys with experience because those guys are attractive, hence why they got the experience in the first place.
It's harder for women to get off so they like the comfort of knowing they have a partner who can maneuver their way around. Though experienced isn't the same as being a man-whore
eminds me of the predicament of newly qualified graduate. Wants to enter the job market, but jobs require experience to get in :(
i don't know, I am the opposite. I find innocence to be ideal. purity is beautiful.
Eh, experience means knowledge. Although sex wise I don't like a guy with a lot of partners. That's just gross.
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