That's a little mean, but ultimately she wasn't attracted to you, and didn't know how to tell you in that setting. Since you weren't asking her for her number in a romantic way (but she knew that's probably why you wanted it) she had a hard time saying "no" in a polite way.
I don't mean for this to sound shallow, but are you asking girls far out of your league? Or perhaps are mistaking friendliness for attraction?
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I've done this a lot of times...it dosent mean the guy did anything wrong.or they said something stupid..
they just wernt my type..dosent mean other girls won't like them..just not me , dont take it personaly..(now you got me thinking bout what those guys thought)..if you though she liked u back or flirted back she was just tryin to be nice
Hmm that sucks. I would have been honest and just said I didn't know you enough to give out my number, if I wasn't into you. And you refreshed her memory and told her you were the guy from the enrollment center? Go hunt her down in school! lol no just kidding. Yeah I don't know she was just being nice in this case. It happens.
Don't take it personally. Give yourself major props for having the balls to ask for her number. A lot of guys wouldn't even be able to do that haha. As sad as it is, most girls are too weak to directly reject a guy, so this isn't that uncommon. Just accept that it's going to happen, treat it as a learning experience and move on.
First guess is that she's taken and didn't want to reject u in case you act like a psycho man (for some reason females fear this a lot).
Second guess is although she enjoyed conversation with you, she didn't find u physically attractive enough for her fancy.
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That's why when you get a girls number at the spot, you text them at the spot to see if its real and make them look stupid. she could have possibly given you the wrong number by accident... Just one number wrong and you are screw. You could have possibly mis read the number she wrote down with a wrong digit or she thought it was to soon to give it to someone she met our she wasn't feeling you
Forget her chicks like that probably only date the douche bags. But if she ever comes back to you after her douche bag boyfriend dumps her give her a fake number and see how she feels.
She was probably not cool with being honest and just not giving you her number, and she should have been honest.
She may have thought you were cool but not in a dating way and wasn't interested to talk to you like that and instead of being mean upfront she just gave you the wrong number.
Well maybe she didn't give you the right one intentionally, or maybe she changes her number few days ago and made a mistake? Or maybe you entered it bad in your phone.
It's a pain, I would know, but she simply isn't into you that way. She must have thought you fancied her, but she doesn't and felt that giving you a wrong number would send you the message.
Why can't girls say no? Be upfront.
She's not into you.
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