Well biologically we go for mates with in two up or two down of our number- and I mean 1-10 1 being the lowest and 10 being the highest- and the numbers correlate to our symmetrical features and body shape.
So assuming your 8 friends go for 8 women... Well most very pretty women are taught to only value themselves because if their looks, so their personalities are lacking. And because of their perceived value they expect to get men offering them more than just the men's looks. They expect- rich- famous etc men.
Not true for all cases, but if your friends are going for the hottest girl in a club (a bad environment to find a true mate) then these girls will of heard it all before, they spend hours getting ready to be the hottest girl in the club and will expect the most desirable mates in the club to approach them.
The single trait most quoted by women as what they look for in a man is "he can make me laugh" so would you want a hot guy or a guy who can make you laugh?
So it could be your friends are expecting more because they are good looking and they need to work on their personality it's more or it could be they are looking for a girlfriend in the wrong girls
well everyone's definition of attractive is different, and even if someone is found extremely attractive by EVERYONE, that can also be the problem. for example i can't staaand pretty boys. something about them just gets on my nerves without even knowing their personality, i just automatically in my head reject them! aha i dont know what it is. but when i was in high school all the "popular" guys would be so confused and shocked when i rejected them all and then went with some average guy instead. while some girls thought i was crazy for not choosing "the cutest" guys. everyone just has different types.
Just cause a guy is attractive doesn't mean we have a connection with them romantically. Plenty of guys are hot but we can't fall in love with every single one of them. It takes a special amount of chemistry and compatibility to make people fall for one person over another. This is what makes love special and mysterious. We don't always get to choose who we fall for.
We focus on the personality more, we would rather have an average looking guy with an awesome personality than an attractive one but with a horrible personality.
Another thing is that attractive guys tend to attract girls more, so if we date one, we might keep worrying that he is going to cheat on us.
That's how I see things x)
Good looking guys get just as much attention as super hot girls do. I've been out before and noticed how much attention the average cute girl gets compared to the super hot girl. Bottom line is that super hot people tend to grow up being told they are the hottest person alive and as a result they seem to come jam packed full of ego and conceited. Girls like confidence but not overly cocky guys, from my experience at least. So they are willing to get to know the cute guy versus getting to know the guy who spends most of his time in the mirror (the attractive guy).
Dating is about luck. You have to ask a girl in the right moment and in the right way for it to even have a chance. Some are unluckier and less experienced than others regardless of looks.
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I would take the ugliest guy on the planet over an attractive guy if he was funny. I always just want someone who can make me laugh. so for me it really is based on personality rather than looks.
There's more to a relationship than looks, but sometimes women don't want to be with somebody when there are a million other females being googly-eyed and drooling over him. It's annoying and can make one feel a bit insecure. But also, we might just click with average men more than the attractive ones. Or maybe those females had bad relationships with past attractive men and choose to steer clear lol.
Because attraction is subjective. What you find hot may not be what they find hot. The guys could be douches or the women could be insecure in thenmsepves as well.
It could be different reasons. First of all everyone's idea of attractive is different. Maybe those average looking guys are more attractive to the girls. Another thing is personality and connection. Maybe they feel more of a connection with the average guys cuz looks aren't all that matter or it could be they're too shy to talk to the attractive guys
but the average looking guy might have a better personality and fits better the kind of guy the girl is looking for instead of the attractive one
Just because they're attractive doesn't mean they'll get the girl. Personality plays a big role, now I'm not saying their personality is bad but maybe it just doesn't click with the girls personality
Because there's more to a relationship than just looks >____>
Because they make us insecure, I'd rather date someone average.
It's not about how a guy looks. It's more about personality and intelligence
I'd rather date an "average" guy who makes me feel amazing and has a great personality than a handsome guy with a s**t attitude
For me its my own insecurities. i would go for the average looking guy that came up to me over the extremely attractive guy who didn't.
its all about personality and compatibility. Physical attraction is just one aspect of a relationship
Maybe since they are attractive they give a vibe of a fboy and girls don't want to go through that so they play it safe
Bull! I'm average looking and not once, have I ever been picked over an attractive guy.
Attractive guys arn't always the nicest guys, its also about the personality not the looks, even though this does also count.
Cuz women want to fu*k good looking guys that are funny and cool af.
becuz girls dont' want someone better looking than them. and also all girls have low self esteem and they think the guy is out of their league so they go for an average bum
Lol, get the fuck over yourself.
I don't think thats how it work.
Connection, personality, intelligence, job..
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