well not everyy woman does. like when i get married, im still going to stay in shape simply because i like living a healthy life. but my mom definitely gained some weight after marriage (i saw some before pictures, i was surprised. my mom isn't fatt but she was a lott slimmer before) but its because she had a high metabolism and never gained weight so she never even bothered to work out and was just always kind of lazy, but then after giving birth and getting older and her metabolism slowing down, things changed because she doesn't know how to live a healthy life since she never really did and she's just too lazy to go to the gym, and the same for my dad. its not just women who gain weight after marriage.
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#generalisation422 some are actually even sexier after marriage lol, but anyway for those that do, it's just freedom really. knowing that 'hopefully' her man doesn't care just about the outside.
i personally would try to maintain my health as well as i can all my life, but if i gain a few lbs on a vacation or something I'm totally NOT sorry.
Wow so the only reason you wanted a girl is so she could have a great body.
That update of yours is f***** up. We're more then just our bodies.
pregnancy and slower matabolism.
Even without marriage or kids, supposedly girls gain weight when they are in a relationship and lose when they are single. there's not as much motivation to be sexy since they already have the guy.
They are on the market any more to land the big fish... so they can relax/let themselves go... enjoy being supported for the rest of her life.
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cuz they already reeled in their guy so some women let themselves go. Pregnancy does nothing to help either if they have kids.
They start popping out babies and their metabolisms slow down with age
For The Same reason guys let themselves go a few years into the marriage.
Motivation.
www.black-ogre.com/.../now-i-can-get-fat.jpgBecause a lot of girls go around with the mentality that if he loves me he should love me no matter what I look like or my weight. So they let themselves go thinking their spouses love is intact even though their spouses attraction may not be.
Some of the women (and even men) that gain weight after marriage are in that "comfort zone". Some think they have a partner so they don't need to put in effort in their appearance. For a woman, she can gain some weight due to pregnancy. Both can gain weight due to medical problems and medication... as you get older those things happen.
Babies and then living with small children, usually. Most of the women I work with in their late 39s & 40s seem to lose weight. They say it's because they have free time to work out again cuz the kids can do things on their own and meal time isn't a battle like it can be with little kids.
Simple. Because they have the guy's balls in a death-grip. They know they have the divorce card which works in their favor, so they no longer have to take care of themselves, treat their husband kindly, or make any effort in the relationship.
Why work hard when you don't have to?
So as a guy, don't get married if you want your girl to treat you with respect and remain slim.Jealous husbands fatten them up so the milkman doesn't try to fuck them?
If my girl just decided to stop caring about being healthy just because she knew I loved her I'd get kinda mad after a while because I wouldn't do that, so if she does just because she is being lazy then we got problems
Because you don't take them on dates anymore and you are always at work and you don't have sex So the only thing they can do is eat sleep and work. And it's stressful being married to you. Don't call women fat!
A lot of people guys and girls stop trying to be healthy after they get in a deeply committed relationship because they feel they won't lose them by looking like shit after that point. It's really wrong and deceptive but it is what it is.
They think that men won't judge them anymore cuz the man married them, so they don't care what they eat or when they have kids their stomach stretches so it looks like they r fat.
Not just girls, guys too. Either way I'm making my future wife sign a contract that says she will remain fit for the rest if or marriage. Still debating if 3 months is enough to get back in shake after giving birth.
Not only after marriage, also after they get kids or some women just with aging around their 30's. I've seen it a lot :/
Why are you a generalizing asshole? Who knows. Its the way of the world
No time to exercise, bad diet , lazy, just don't care, maybe her husband is fattening her up on purpose aha
Depression because things aren't right at home or for how they feel things should be.
Because they need chocolate in order to cope with their fuckboy of a husband
usually it's because they have kids, or stop working out/eat unhealthy. also, it's harder to keep in shape as you get older.
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