No one deserves to be bullied.
You really need to build your self confidence and learn to love yourself. You can't expect others to love you, if you don't love yourself.
Another thing, you're drowning in self pity, you need to pull your big girl panties on and get it together, be happy! Life has so much to offer and there's so many things to be thankful for. I don't know your current situation, but I can tell you there's always someone going through something worse.
Stop being jealous of those other girls, if you want what they have, then put yourself out there. It takes baby steps and even though it can be uncomfortable, it's well worth it. Its like sticking your toe in hot water, you pull it out quickly, dip it back in repeatedly, till you can put your whole foot in the hot water.
If you think your fat, then work out and eat healthy and get the body you desire. Life takes hard work and you're the only person who can give it to yourself.
I don't mean to lecture, but I've been where you are and I needed a slap in the face, thankfully I got one, and I've been more confident in life and a hell of a lot happier.
People are always there for you and you should never hate your life. Be happy you have a life!
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I agree it sounds like you have Body Dysmorphic disorder. I bet you are a beautiful, person not trying to sound cliche' or anything. We all have insecurities people tell me I am beautiful after awhile I do, believe it. I look really similar to Katy Perry even though I don't wear a lot of makeup. The only difference is that my eyes are a steele blue with a bit of green sometimes look turquoise. Don't be hard on your self life is too short to be depressed and unhappy. I could be that way at least you are not Bipolar like me. I was bullied for being in a special math class I am in Geomtry essentials even though I signed up as 96' baby but I'm really a 99' baby. :)))
You need to relax and learn how to not be so hard on yourself. I think you're pretty from your profile picture. Don't listen to what people say because no matter what you do, society will never be happy. I suggest just making yourself look pretty TO YOU, as long as you think you look pretty don't worry about what other people think. Don't copy or compare yourself to other girls. Be your unique self.
First of all, you need to see a good psychologist who will really help you with your insecurity. Beauty is not important, it's not something that should bring you down. We all have different opinions about beauty, if some don't find you pretty, others will.
Ignore the bullies, and surround yourself with good people.
Whoa !
Calm down Ok?
Just chill
Take a deep breath
Good 😊
See life sucks like as hell though I don't have problem with girls but some other things in my life sucks
Still I'm always awesome
You think you're ugly?
Ok but why?
Upload a pic here then you'll know cause people here gives good advice 😊
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I'm confused. Are you the pretty girl in your GaG avatar?
It shocks me how you think you are ugly.
You are amazing young girl.
You just don't have a boyfriend because maybe people don't know how to deal with you, they feel hopeless about trying to make you happy.
Is that your photo? So cute girl.
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1. Being pretty is not the most important.
2. Being in a relationship is overrated.
3. You are in college, use this opportunity to get ahead to a level everyone will wish they were at, then you will gain confidence
4. Then you will attract as you will be happy in your own skinI feel you, I had this image of myself about a year ago. Got bullied as well, people said I'm ugly I'm also single and when I looked in the mirror I saw ugliness. I quit college because of this and went to a phycologists for 8 months. This helped me a lot and I accepted more who I was. I'm still really insecure and shy tho but I'm making progress.
Well looks are in the genetics by and large, but to some extent looks can be fixed, if you know what I mean. However you don't deserve to get bullied, not at all. It's sad that this has happened to you. I hope you are okay.
You clearly have an distorted self-image and see yourself as uglier than you are.
You should learn to accept and love yourself the way you are and potentially consider going to counselling.I think I'm not that good looking but I was never bullied or tormented or suicidal. So what am I doing right? Probably just being myself and having fun.
Only Two words after looking at your half face in gag avatar "Hot n Sexy"
Love yourself and remember someone out there loves you abs some out there finds you attractive. People call Beyonce ugly #fuckthehaters
Seriously, you need mental health help. You are deep into depression and body dysmorphia.
You should go see a shrink. Attention seeking women...
But you have a selfie in your profile picture? How did you take that pic without crying?
don't put on makeup, and go to the gym.
Wow and I thought I had low selfesteem
Ugly? LOL.
I think you're quite prettyGo see a phycoligest
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