If you're feeling like your girlfriend takes you for granted, then tell her. Don't just stop talking to her without telling her what is going on and expect her to magically understand what you are doing. Sit, her down and tell her that with the way she's been behaving lately that you're really beginning to feel like she's taking you for granted. Give her the chance to talk to you about it and change her behavior. If you find, after a few weeks, that she's not changing. Then suggest that maybe it's time for you to take a break. Time away may help her understand how much you mean to her. But, don't just ignore her without giving her a chance to turn things around. She may think you're breaking up with her if she doesn't hear from you and if you still like her, you'd just be shooting yourself in the foot.
I think it might be best if you just sit down and talk to her about how you're feeling. Girls really appreciate communication and if you stop talking to her she might not understand what's going on with you and end up confused/upset about your absence instead of understanding the message your trying to send her. Sit down with her and tell her why you feel the way you do and if she continues to disregard you/take you for granted then you'll have a clearer idea of where she stands and maybe make a larger decision about your relationship. With girls it's always best to communicate with us and let us know what's happening, we're emotional and the way we express what's going on with each other is through conversations so I think that might be the best way to get through to her. Good luck!
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Ignoring her for a couple of days isn't going to achieve the desired goal. I think you need to discuss your concerns with her because she won't have any idea why you're ignoring her. She needs to know what is going on so she knows how you feel and can identify what she is doing wrong. I think you should give her that chance to rectify this and make the relationship work.
Best of luck.
open up to her. tell her how you really feel and if she's decent then she'll listen. if she doesn't, then dump her.
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