Maybe its my impression but i notice that in my life i had more male and good friends than good woman friends. When i was a teenager i passed the all time with my best friend ( girl) and 3 guys of our class. They pas the entire class telling jokes In my perpective male friends can be more honest and fun to talk than a woman. I had some bad experiences with female friends , i had friends that were fake behind my back , others that just came to me when they need something and others have jealous of me in many ways , specially when i get a boyfriend. I dont know why but male can be more relaxed and fun , you can talk about silly things and do crazy stuff. With woman sometimes is different , they pass all the time comparing themselves with others , some of them are fake , they pretend be your friend and then talk shit behind your back. Some of them dont know you and just start to hate you and threat you bad without logical reasons. Men at least are not fake , if he dont like you they just go away or dont pay you attention.
Regardleas whether you're attractive or not, with men, there are no competing interests. A guy doesn't give a shit about feeling like he is prettier than you, more attractive than you, gets more male attention that you do, has men fall in love with him more easily that you, has better relationships and boyfriends than you, has a better lifestyle than you, etc. Absolutey zero fucks are given. It's not a competition. There is no motive to sabotage you emotionally for their own emotional gain.
Now, depending how attractive you are, and how shy and loserish the guys you hang out with are, the desire to want to fuck you can supply the motive for some men to "bite their tongue" (so to speak). What that means is, if there is ever a "conflict" in the "friendship" relationship, the man is more "willing" and motivated to "compromise" and let things go your way or cater to your emotional needs. This results in you getting some benefit if what you want out of this "friendship."
That's always nice. Sort of like telling jokes to your employees, as their boss. If they laugh at your jokes and make you feel like they like you, you may just like them, and maybe give them a little extra something come bonus time. But that's not much of a relationship, is it?
I'm always weary of girls who gravitate away from relationships with other women. More often than not, it's an indication that they're emotionally selfish, and the only people they prefer or like having a friendship with are men, but only men who will tolerate or put up with her.
There is nothing inherently so wrong with women that a woman cannot prefer or enjoy maintaining a friendship relationship with another woman, and prefer and enjoy it MORE than a friendship with a man (especially one where you have reason to suspect he may be interested in having sex with you; i. e., not a real friendship).
I understand what you are trying to say. I had some male friends that we stop to be friends because they confuse everything and wanted to pass to the next level. Its not every men that i can be just afriend but just by talking with them i can understand if they have other intentions. But like i was saying the best moments that i passed was with one (girl) friend and 3 guys. I had a boyfriend and he was my best friend before. When you are still in the school is different , now that im an adult is more complicated.
Unusual , but nothing wrong with that. Girls / women tend to stick together & have the ultra close friendships that boys / men never do. Opposite genders CAN be good friends , without wanting more !! I have some great female friends , that I'm not attracted to.
"i had friends that were fake behind my back , others that just came to me when they need something and others have jealous of me in many ways , specially when i get a boyfriend."
Basically the reason why I have very little girl friends. It's easier being friends with guys. I also feel like I can be more myself. I feel like girls judge me more. Girls just don't like me. I don't know why. I mean, I know I have my faults, but I'm a good friend and I try my hardest to try and fix things when I see that there is something wrong. I make mistakes, but don't we all? I fear making girl friends. I have more girl friends than guys right now, but I am closer to the guys than the girls.
Its good to have female friends but i dont know why some woman have to be so stupid. Me as a woman i dont like to talk behind someone back i find it disrespectful. It depends of the person , exist good persons and bad persons. But what i like in a lot in some guys is that they are relaxed they dont talk to much about desnecesary things. I dont know for you but it sucks imagine , you go to the shopping and finally you the dress that you wanted and your friend simply get jealous , they try to hide but you notice. I can say almost my friends had jealous in some way even my "suppose" best friend stop talk to me when she know that i move to other country with my boyfriend. Its good to have girl friends but some dont worth it
"With woman sometimes is different , they pass all the time comparing themselves with others , some of them are fake , they pretend be your friend and then talk shit behind your back. Some of them dont know you and just start to hate you and threat you bad without logical reasons" You haven't met many laid-back women.
"Men at least are not fake , if he dont like you they just go away or dont pay you attention." aaaand you haven't met many shitty men.
I usually can't stand it when females claim that males make better friends. I mean, what does that say about themselves?
im not saying firmly that mens are better friends than woman. I have female friends too , good too and when you have good friens fo the both sexes its perfect. I was trying to say that sometimes just sometimes i get alog better or feel more comfortable talking with men than a woman. Depends of the person.
Honestly? Guys are laid back and chill. [[ Unless they want sex]].
I get where you're coming from. Hang out, play ball, watch a game, go out to eat (and talk about sports, cars, working out).
- They're also GREAT for advice if you have guy problems/questions. Because they know what the guy is thinking and can point out stuff you may not have noticed/realized.
* I have more guy friends than females at this point. Nothing wrong with that!
Well, of course it's important to have friends of both sexes.
Hmm, my close friends (guys and girls) are easy to talk to. Honestly, you might just feel more comfortable around guys. Seriously, there's nothing wrong with that. The guys probably feel the same way about you. :}
Maybe it's because you already have all these notions in your head that women are terrible and that's why you find any reason why you can't stay friends.
I have about equal amount of male and female friends. Always have. I can have deep meaningful conversations with women and talk about my dreams and goals. And I can laugh and joke with my male friends. But I'm not a misandrist or misogynist.
It depends of the person , some people are stupid other are not . AND exist stupid men too , but its good to hang out with girls and boys its more fun.
Most men are just honest, and simple. That's why some girls call us boring. We don't create drama or gossip. We just hang out, drink beer, and talk about stupid funny things. And maybe do some stupid fun stuff. Lmao
It's actually not uncommon for you to feel that way. A lot of females prefer male friends over women because of the stuff you detailed. Keep going with who makes you feel best.
I dont know why but some of them they just see you once and start to hate you. Its so stupid some people dont have any reason to threat you bad and just look at you like competition or something . If you are person that talk too much they will say that you want to know their lives or that you are annoying , if you dont talk you pass to be a fake one, if you dont dress something fashionable they will judge you by your clothes and gossip behind your back... its stupid stuff like this that make me avoid people
Your female friend is right... and this coming from a female who went to an all-girls school for three years. Imagine the drama I heard about everyday lol 1.bp.blogspot.com/.../gif+palomitas.gif
? no? why should i feel intimidating by other woman? Im good looking like them and even more good beautiful than some bitches that i meet. And i have a lot of female friends , i like to go out with males and females like i sayed before i was always withmy best friend , i never go out just with male friends
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