She says she doesn't want to clean the house cause she's equal/not my slave. She wants to share the work. No sex if I don't help her clean the house! That's ridiculous. Women are supposed to clean the house. Doesn't she respect me or why does she expect me to help her clean the house? My mom always cleaned up after my dad and she never complained. What did I do wrong? How do I get her to clean the house? It's not easy. She's a tough cookie.
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You don't deserve sex.
What makes you think you get to live in that house, dirty up those dishes, leave your sh*t all over the place, fill the garbage up, dirty up the bathroom -
And not have to clean sh*t up?
Grow up dude.
Your girlfriend is not your f***ing maid. Neither is your mom, or any other woman figure, unless you specifically hire a maid lol
Your a grown ass man, you can pick up after yourself. It's not that got damn hard.
The only reason your girlfriend should be cleaning up the house mainly on her own, is if she's a stay at home girl. Then that's pretty much her job lol.
But if she's working like your working, paying the bills and all that - then you honestly can't complain. She's helping you pay those bills, you should be helping her clean the house.
There's nothing wrong with a guy cleaning up - it shows that your responsible and know how to take care of your home.
Your father was wrong in his thinking - it's honestly no one's " job" to do anything in a relationship.
So quit complaining about a few damn chores - if you don't clean up after yourself, your just disgusting.