What are shy girls attracted to?

[Anonymous]

Or, how do I go about being attractive to a shy girl? And how do I know if one is attracted to me? Any advice pertaining to how to act towards a shy girl would be greatly appreciated.

[notluckywithlove]

Shy girls are attracted to guys ( and girls sorry not genderising there) the same as any other type of girl. It helps if that guy is understanding of the fact that we are shy, takes the time to talk to us and treats us like he can see us. Approaching a shy girl that you don't know is a lot easier then most people will make it out to be. We don't mind if people come up to talk to us because we find it hard to go up to everyone else. Approach with a greeting and ask a question maybe but the most important thing to remember at first is don't make it a loud obnoxious greeting and bear with out horrible conversation skills at first we get better as we get more comfortable. A few signs a shy girl might be into you are 1) Glances at you then looks away when you catch her 2) Smiles at you a lot/ laughs at what you say 3) Seems interested in keeping the conversation going 4) and brightens up when they see you coming toward them to talk. Really the best advice I can give you is to be patient with her and not exspect too much at first, give her a bit of room but also be there for her as well and make an effort to get to know her. Oh and offer info about yourself as well even if she wants to know it's more likley she won't ask.

P.s. To add onto my long jumble just one last thing you'll definently be making all the moves here at first. Asking for the number, initiating contact, asking her out if you get there...don't let a lack of her doing any of this discourage you most likely you can chalk it up to shyness.

[notluckywithlove]

Oh and trust is a big thing there to don't break it or you may never get it back..and if you do it will be a very hard long road.

[upood]

These are true, I agree with this answer but I would add that me being shy results in me ignoring my crush and pretending like he's not there but glancing every now and then. I also have trouble speaking so ill look him in the eyes but not say much in conversation. But I won't be leaving, ill stand there.

[Anonymous]

A shy girl likes a man who is:

1- Understanding: A guy who wouldn't judge her shyness or social awkwardness. You would like her imperfections as well as her points of strength.

2- Funny: A guy who has a good sense of humor. Usually having a convesation with shy people end up very stressful on them because they have no idea what to say/do and they think 10000 times before saying anything and even after they say it they feel bad thinking they messed up. That is why adding humor to conversations break the ice and makes her feel relaxed and comfortable.

3- Trustworthy: She can open up to you without getting hurt. You can keep her secrets.

4- Do the approaching job: Shy people find it so hard to approach so you have to initiate it. She will love you for it.

Good luck. :)

[lovelymeforever1]

i agree with all your points, especially UNDERSTANDING.

[Anonymous]

okay, so be nice to her, smile, and don't be too rash with what you tell her. Start out with simple conversations and you'll be suprised on how she'll go on talking about the subject or herself in general. As a shy girl, I like a guy who's smart, kind, and ambitious. I don't like jerks. I also care more about personality than looks; as long as your ok-looking she'll like you. By the way...if you're a shy guy...what do shy guys like because I really like this shy guy. p.s. I tend to avoid eye contact with the guy I really like. But, if you catch her staring then turning away, she likes you :)

[MichaelGdf]

Short simplified answers are most likely to be true. So pay attention.

You have to mirror her shyness. Once you managed to indentify yourself as a shier person. She will reflect, acknowledge her potential, and act more dominant towards you.

Her behavior meant that she was friendly intending to determine who's going to be passive and dominant throught the relationship at the starting point. Once you have successfully earned to merge and understand one another without asking and answering several questions. Both will have to reveal your true form and authentique identity before taking it to the next level! Good Luck, My Friend!

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