Is it true that if you ignore the guy it will make him chase you?

[sandysandy]

Is it true that if you ignore the guy it will make him chase you?

[aficionado]

Maybe it would work with some guys, but most of the guys would never chase you if you ignore them. In fact, they'd just forget about you and look for someone else. As a guy, I personally feel that its an utter waste of time if I chase someone who ignores because, because I'm not really sure she'd accept me or not. If she doesn't, then all my 'chasing' would be completely wasted, and in that time I could have actually found someone else who wouldn't play mind games with me, and just finalize it with a 'yes' or 'no'.

[SüßeJäger]

No not in any way. I will move on and not waste my time for two reasons. One, I don't like games and two, I would assume she is not interested and I wouldn't waste my time. If a guy does any chasing this day in age he is creepy, a stalker or desperate.

[Anonymous]

If he enjoys chasing for the sake of chasing he mighty for a while.. but eventually he'll have to figure out if he really likes you or not. Don't ignore or play mind games to make guys chase you... Be honest and open (not clingy) and the right guy will come along.

[randomhobo]

No, if you show no interest then the guy will assume you aren't interested and stop talking to you. Ignoring to get someone to chase you seems like an idiotic idea if you like someone. (General you not you specifically)

[Anonymous]

It works for some and not for others but my experience tells me that yes if the guy likes he will chase you.

[Girlinfo]

Well if it didn't work then why is there the whole no contact rule?

[Argus14]

The whole hot and cold thing usually backfires. Doesn't matter if it's a man or woman doing it. Eventually someone always takes it to far or for too long.

If you want someone just be the bigger person and go after them. Contrary to popular belief it's not written in stone that men need to be the aggressors.

[eskimo]

If you only give him the cold shoulder, he will move on. If you give him some attention just enough to keep him interested, he will chase you more.

Having said that, guys hate it when girls do that. It doesn't make for a good healthy relationship in the future. Guys who have experience in dating, generally will not tolerate it and just call it quits.

[1932ct]

you show him your Not interested by ignoring him then he is just going to move on to someone who is interested in him.

[ObscuredBeyond]

It will only go so far. Shut me out too much and for too long, and I begin to resent it. And if you give excuses that are absolute BS that I see right through, my intelligence may feel insulted. That's a good way to lose me possibly forever.

[findingdreamland]

It is very very old story. Maybe a century ago. Now not anymore.

[man32]

it depends on how u ignore... and how u see him. if the guy sees that nervousness with some affection in eyes then he will chase... else he will go other way

[Melissayo]

It has worked for me but the guys were no good.. I wasn't playing games. I was just trying to get them out of my life.

[Bowlfish]

totally depends on the person (ality). i think you should consider yourself lucky (or unlucky if he is literally obsessed with you) if he indeed chases you, don't think it will happen often

[bDizzie]

That might work on the players, but decent guys won't play games and will move on to a girl that shows interest.

[RyB3y]

Maybe sometimes. For me I'd just quit while I was ahead and get on with my life

[noneoftheabove]

If a girl ignores me I just blank it and forget about her

[Chris011]

It will cause doubt in him and he will look for another girl because he'll feel you're not into him.

[NoblesseOblige]

Waste of time. Just go for it and see what happens. So much faster.

[binny91]

Nope if you ignore the guy it shows your not interested and he'll move on.

[Rogue2]

It may work on some, but not on most. It's a waste of time and he'll move on.

[ImCoasting]

Not this guy, I will give up on her. I'm too old for mind games.

[SaltandVinegar]

Only for a short time, if you do not return interest he will look for another girl who will

[ArsCarpeDiem]

Only if he's already into you.

[GoldCobra]

Nope. I don't pursue the girl if she is ignoring me.

[Anonymous]

In most cases, if a girl ignores a guy, he'll accept the belief that you aren't interested and try to move on.