Guy just said 'lets make out.' please help?

[rachelbrrtt]

I've talked to this guy for a while and we both like each other. and just a second ago he texted me 'lets make out' it was totally out of the blue and im not sure what to do. I've never even had a first kiss. let alone kissed him. or made out with someone

I am kind of freaking out. please help!

Updates

+1 y

I responded with ummm. and he then said 'wrong person, that was to a friends gf lol'

what the hell? to me that might be even worse

[findingdreamland]

You will do it just because you have received a text? No, of course no. People do it because they want to, they are ready. They are mature enough to handle the results of it.

You seem not ready. Text him that you can talk about it later.

Is he drunk or sth? This seems a drunk message?

[rachelbrrtt]

at this point I don't know if he's drunk or not

and I wasn't going to do anything with him. I just don't know how to respond to such a forward advance

[findingdreamland]

Oh ok. Text him that you can talk about it later. It is pretty awkward to talk about sth like this on phone actually.

[knotme]

He just said that because you didn't come back with the reply he wanted. If you dont feel comfortable making out dont do it and have a talk with him

[HyperBro001]

I'm not sure what kind of guy this is, but if he texted out of the blue and he hangs out in certain crowds there's a possibility he might be drunk.

Beyond that tidbit, do what you're comfortable with and know your limits.

[HyperBro001]

Honestly, it was probably a joke. Don't overreact unless you have more information first.

[rachelbrrtt]

we were talking before this and then kind of in a lull in the conversation he said that.

but I'm sure its extremely possible he's drunk

[HyperBro001]

I'm hesitant to advise you on this. What you do in terms of the girl he was actually addressing depends on who your friends are. If he's drunk, going over to his place becomes riskier. I wouldn't recommend it, but then again I'm not really a party kind of guy.

[rachelbrrtt]

at no point would I go over to his house this late. that's asking for trouble in my opinion. and i'm not really the partying type either

and I don't really know too many of his friends, we met through a mutual family gathering and I've met like all of his family, but not his friends. so I have no clue

[HyperBro001]

I did not mean to offend (if I did). I don't believe I can properly advise you in this situation.

[rachelbrrtt]

you're fine. and thanks anyways

[bleedingquadrophenic]

It was for you. Your "ummmm" scared him and now he's trying to play it cool.

[rachelbrrtt]

Why would he bring a friends gf into it then?

[sarmac]

he said friends gf because it would obviously be a joke to her. but if he said it was supposed to be for another girl, then you would think that he likes this other girl, not you.

[SüßeJäger]

Naaa it was for you. Tell him you might make out with him only if he didn't want to make out with the other girl.

[Metal189]

tell him that you don't know if u should or not because youve never had your first kiss. if he's a good guy, he'll understand.

[NovemberJoseph]

The fact that it was meant for his friend's gf is proof that this guy is an asshole. Stay away from him.

[mario1321]

Dont do anything your uncomfortable or not ready for

[rachelbrrtt]

im not going to. I just don't know how to respond to such a forward advance like that. any tips to turn him down? and what the hell is with him saying it to a friends gf?

[mario1321]

Yeah tell him he is an ass and your telling your daddy

[rachelbrrtt]

It's not like I'm 14. I'm almost 18. I'm not going to go running to my 'daddy'

[rachelbrrtt]

Thanks though

[mario1321]

Better too run to your daddy than some big mistake

[rachelbrrtt]

Im not running to any thing. Except maybe God. I know a possibly compromising situation when I see one and try to avoid it

Just to be clear the guy who said this, said it through text. We weren't even in the same city. And I am not going to go see him that late at night. Ever

[mario1321]

Smart girls are so very rare these dayz,, im glad your one

[rachelbrrtt]

Thanks

[mario1321]

Thank you for letting me know smart young women are still around

[rachelbrrtt]

No problem. There are more out there than you think. You just never hear about them (cause they're smart enough to stay out of trouble) or see them because they don't have as many self esteem issues that they have to take selfies all the time

[mario1321]

Your genuine i like that , your going to make someone very happy one day

[NoblesseOblige]

Kissing is pretty boring actually. Just go for it.

[Anonymous]

Tell him to take you on a proper date first.