Do aquarius guys tend act like they hate you when actually they are just hurt because they are scared you won't like them back?

[Anonymous]

iv had a casual thing with this Aquarius guy for a few months. at first he was really cool to be with and exciting and nice. things were moving really slow but I didn't mind because im not exactly looking for a serious relationship and he and I both agreed on that and felt the same. but there was definatly chemistry. all was going well and casual and he tended to be really distant at times and then interested at others. so I gathered it was just going to blow over and he was getting bored. I booked tickets to travel for six months time or more.and ever since then he's been still wanting to see me but been really uncalled for sometimes when he was drunk he kept saying how he hated girls and me. very weird. hah. does anyone know whats going on? cause I don't! I just want us to carry on having fun and being cool with eachother. thanking you.

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

Yeah they're douche bags. LI had two exes that were Aquarians but I can't really help my attraction since we're opposites. My dad is an Aquarius, he's kind of mellowed out a bit in his older age but he is still a snob just less douchie. Some Aquarius are nice and just looking for someone to share their knowledge with. More often then not you'll run into the douche ones. Sarcasm is a sport to the Aquarian guy. Overall they're bad liars bc when they try to lie they ultimately tell on themselves. When you're with one you have to keep them in check and on their toes matching them in whit even though he'll not want to directly admit how smart you are. They like who seems smart and quick witted to them or usually they won't be around you. Give them space for thought and they come back around. When they share their thoughts with you they like you.

[Asker]

ahah. he is being such a douchbag and your bang on the money with the sarcasm he wants to know everything about me but since he is sooo sarcastic about everything i cannot get anything out of him without questioning if he's being sarcastic!! do you think this guy is reacting to me leaving because he's hurt or simply because he's a barstard and he knows now he's got nothing to lose? thanks heaps for your comment :)

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

Well if you were leaving and he'd kind of beat around the bush on keeping you. Like telling you things you may want to hear. But he'll do it in such away like keeping his cool guy card. "You can go if you want, I'm not gonna chase you. But I thought we really had something."

[Kshppatel]

He probably thinks you are making him wait because you are looking for someone else and putting him second. Let me put you into the mind of a guy: we think that if a girl waits too long to be in a relationship with us she is either friendzoning us or she is putting us second or third and looking for another guy and if it doesn't work out with that guy then she will settle for us.

[Asker]

ohhh yeah i see what you mean by that. but at the same time this guy was no way hinting at me he was starting to want more either. hence why i thought he was getting bored so i booked the tickets. but its a very mind game situation and guess i just want one of us to jump in and be straight but since he's gotten mean i don't want to get terribly shut down and i can't see him opening up EVER! aha uhwell. whats done is done. i guess i could let him know my truth and if he shuts me down then i will eventually say good rittens. hah. thank you heaps for the insight exactly what i was asking for though :) cheers

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I'm Aquarius and i consider myself a very calm, gentle , hyper type guy, very sensitive, very shy at times, quiet, laid back, affectionate, loving, caring..welling to do for others before myself..i would rather do for a girl than to have her do for me.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

When a girl rejects me i stay to myself, don't tall much , feel sad

[Asker]

you sound like me hah. thanks for your input. I get the feeling this guy is scared of real emotion so he's doing nearly everything in his power to not have them and making sure I won't get them either. he is suddenly the most hateful person to me and then the next moment he's all warm and nice again. I havnt rejected him any more then he has rejected me I think that's whats stumping me on his reaction. again, thank you mister aquarius :)

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Your welcome :) My birthday is Feb 9, 1968 *---* *Blushes*

[funkadelic5]

Astrology is bullshit.

[Asker]

I see. well minus that he is an aqaurius. take that out and just based on the rest. what chu think?

[funkadelic5]

Yeah, I have a good idea. Try asking him what's going on, instead of asking people who don't know either you or him about what's going on.

[Mesonfielde]

Came here for this.

[Asker]

for the very reason half the people use a site like this and probably the very reason why this site was created. because they want other peoples insights and opinions when things arnt clear to them? reason i havnt asked him is because since he can be so mean lately and he isn't exactly the straight up and open kind of guy (which is pretty common) even if i did be vulnerable (which i hate) and ask 'why are you suddenly such a jerk whats up?" hed probably lie or just be sarcastic to protect himself from being vulnerable too. so your idea is valid but not really what im asking for. if you read the question :)

[Mesonfielde]

By came here for this, I mean for telling that astrology has absolutely nothing to do with how a person acts.

[Asker]

oh right. well each to there own. if you do or don't believe it im not preaching anything. and the fact un sign has been brought up is really a very small part of the picture. and could easily be taken out and still answered for by males who have idea of why a guy ANY guy would react like this. if you don't that's fine. but i am really not bothered about peoples beliefs. and if i was the question would be " is astrology real? " and that's reeeeally not the angle i am coming from at all. so we can move on from that tiny part of a rather larger question.pleease and thank you :)

[Metal189]

astrology is for idiots

[Asker]

No.People who think they' know it all and play god are idiots.

[Metal189]

astrology is for idiots, yes?

[Asker]

And what exactly do you know about astrology that makes you feel so intitled for me to give a damn or anyone else about your opinion (that is also a pretty minor detail to the question the question ) that you felt the need to post on here? Enlighten me wise guy :) preach away. I dare ya.

[Metal189]

im just sayin'

[Asker]

Well then... Your say counted for little in this case didn't it.