Typically less BS!! I did the exact same thing in high school. A few of my friends couldn't understand what I liked about this girl and asked me why I invited her to my parties. I told them she is cool and you don't have to deal with all the pretentious crap that you deal with in the popular girls. They just tended to be more real, at least in my experience. But, I was little different in high school. Even though I was a four sport athlete in a small town (where you get treated differently by teachers and even the police), I thought you should be nice to everyone. Doesn't matter what people do or how they dressed. Just be nice. I'm glad I was that way and I will someday teach my kids to be the exact same way. Come to think of it a lot of my friends were that way too. Some weren't. The ones who asked about this girl weren't, but some of my friends never asked why, they just went along with it.
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well i wasn't a jock or anything but i like shy quiet girls because i think that they less intimidating, like a girl who is popular and talkative can be overwhelming to me. Plus i would be shy myself, being around another shy person would make me more at ease rather then a really talkative person. something about a shy and quiet girl is appealing but im not quite sure what it is
Guys usually like a girl with visual appeal. This doesn't even necessarily mean make-up. Make an effort. Do something cute with your hair, or wear some clothes that flatter your figure (conservative doesn't have to mean plain and shapeless). Guys appreciate a girl that takes some pride in her appearance. Shallow? Yeah, but it also suggests self-esteem (even if that's completely inaccurate) and a healthy sense of confidence.
Haha so not true. I'm quiet, shy, and have very good grades. I don't wear make-up either. I think it depends on the jock. It's kind of rude to just generalize them.
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I'd definitely say you're friends were unusual, for several reasons. Usually popular guys only go for popular girls. So you're friends would have to be super hot. But being super hot and unpopular is uncommon as well.
So (at least in my experience) popular guys almost never go for the smart and unpopular girl. For teenage guys, there are no real attractive qualities that come with being reserved, and we don't give a damn about your intelligence either. Out chief concern is looks, and your friends would have been plentiful in that department.A jock is someone who participates in sporting activity. Anything else is just annoying stereotypes. It's like that type of shit straight from TV.
To actually answer you question, have you ever considered the reasons why the "jock type" would go out with an 'unpopular' girl are the facts that he finds her attractive and likes her personality?I wouldn't exactly call myself a jock I mean I played a lot of sports in highschool football, basketball, running and out of school martial arts. But I didn't run around in a letterman jacket or belong to a official team as for girls I went for the ones I wanted I didn't care wether they were popular or not.
I couldn't give two shits how popular or unpopular a girl was. I went after girls I liked, period.
I don't think it matters what social group you're put in. Sometimes you like who you find attractive.
A quiet girl gets more respect than a loud girl sometimes.
Guys dont care how popular or unpopular you are.
Because quiet girls are the kinkiest in bed.
They were probably attractive
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