Hi everyone. Newbie here.
I've been with my boyfriend for a year. My problem is I think he is very unfair.. stingy. I'm taking my postgraduate and I'm an international student. Although I am trying to meet both ends, I am very thankful that my parents are very supportive. I also have a part time job but not enough to cover everything. So most of my allowances are still from my parents.
On the other hand, my boyfriend is a company director. He is living a very good life. I just don't get it why it is so hard for him to help me. I don't mean big things but even just for my groceries when he stays at my place for a couple of days :(.
The only part where he has helped me was when I borrowed 1000aud from him because I paid all of my money that time for my tuition. I paid him on time and even pay extra even if he didn't ask for it.
There was also a time when he asked me to revise a company logo but he even didn't give something back for my efforts.
I know it is not his responsibility to help my but seeing what kind of life he has makes me think it's unfair. I pamper him, sex is good (knowing he is 20 years older than me). I love him and whatever I share to him are the only things that I have.
I think I'm good enough for being quiet and not asking anything from him. I remember he told me he used to spend 40k a month for her ex.
Now, it bothers me a lot. When he visits, it's a bit pain for me because I need to budget stuff. Also, since I never ask, I share my feelings though and tell him how difficult for me to live in a different country and struggling to pay my bills.
What should I do with him? I feel like I'm being used. Is it wrong to think this way?
Thanks
I've been with my boyfriend for a year. My problem is I think he is very unfair.. stingy. I'm taking my postgraduate and I'm an international student. Although I am trying to meet both ends, I am very thankful that my parents are very supportive. I also have a part time job but not enough to cover everything. So most of my allowances are still from my parents.
On the other hand, my boyfriend is a company director. He is living a very good life. I just don't get it why it is so hard for him to help me. I don't mean big things but even just for my groceries when he stays at my place for a couple of days :(.
The only part where he has helped me was when I borrowed 1000aud from him because I paid all of my money that time for my tuition. I paid him on time and even pay extra even if he didn't ask for it.
There was also a time when he asked me to revise a company logo but he even didn't give something back for my efforts.
I know it is not his responsibility to help my but seeing what kind of life he has makes me think it's unfair. I pamper him, sex is good (knowing he is 20 years older than me). I love him and whatever I share to him are the only things that I have.
I think I'm good enough for being quiet and not asking anything from him. I remember he told me he used to spend 40k a month for her ex.
Now, it bothers me a lot. When he visits, it's a bit pain for me because I need to budget stuff. Also, since I never ask, I share my feelings though and tell him how difficult for me to live in a different country and struggling to pay my bills.
What should I do with him? I feel like I'm being used. Is it wrong to think this way?
Thanks
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