Why hasn't he replied yet or read my texts?

[Anonymous]

We've been speaking for a while meeting up soon been speaking for 2months
This is how this week messages went
Him:aw thats cool I hope I get to see these hot yoga pants soon :'):') ye was on earlys off for the next 2 days can't wait:') you looking forward to going back to college? any plans for today? xx"
Me: I just replied back answering an brought up how I walked into the bench hard right after my gym session
Him::'):'):'):') you idiot il give you a massage don't worry x nothing much just chilling today watching tv nice lazy day yayyyyy x
Me:Haha I know I'm so clumsy always hurting myself in the gym weight fell on my nail once *facepalm* legs in agony definitely need a massage :') aw good to chill after hard days work what do you like to watch on tv? :) x
He took a day to respond an said "aw I watch a all sorts of things a real variety of things how about you? when we getting hotel so I can give you that massage?:'):') xx"
I replied Same mostly reality and soaps atm need to catch up with the others. Hmm.. this weekend?:") x"
He hasn't read the message as on whatsapp a blue tick comes up he's been online often so today a day later I sent "We could do next weekend if not this weekend an book one of the hotels online?
He hasn't looked at that message either he knows they're there? Why hasn't he replied if he brought up the hotel?
He's been on whatsapp a lot just not looked at the messages as the blue tick hasn't showed up.
We have each other on Twitter an that still

[Anonymous]

Remember "being on Whatsapp" and "being signed in" are the same thing. It can auto-sign in and just stay up. It's like other questions regarding messengers like Kik where a person can be perpetually signed in but not necessarily attentive to it.

[Asker]

His last seen he's been on a lot he hasn't read both of the messages he has received them just not opened the messages to read them , is he just avoiding me? or taking time to reply? he does tend to take a while to reply but he usually reads the messages

[Opinion Owner]

I'm guessing he is occupied.

[Asker]

is he still interested? since he did ask me out? the message before that was sent Thursday evening replied just soon after he send his message todays message Saturday was earlier didn't read either

[Opinion Owner]

He's probably interested.

[Asker]

should I just wait for him now don't send anymore texts? would've have looked clingy the 2nd message I sent?

[Opinion Owner]

Just wait for him.

[Asker]

I'll wait hopefully he replies just hoping I won't have come across clingy

[Opinion Owner]

You're fine. Really.

[Asker]

thanks we have been due to meet many times just not happened just keep getting close to it happening

[Opinion Owner]

No problem.

[Asker]

He replied a few minutes ago haven't read it yet just saw the notification probably reply tomorrow

[Opinion Owner]

-_-''

[Part6fam]

Yup he's busy, strt busying yourself until he has proven himself to you, only then can you him a priority

[Asker]

He's been on the whatsapp a lot so is probably chatted to others was it a bad thing to send the 2nd message today don't want to be seeming clingy?

[Part6fam]

Don't worry about it, i will blunt and say that u aren't his priority at the moment, just go with the flow, focus on others things like your ambitions and family if he wants you he will come get you.

[Asker]

Oh so he's maybe keeping his options open? but still interested in some way?

[Asker]

Will he reply eventually? just hope I'm not annoying him

[Asker]

He replied a few minutes ago I haven't read the message yet just saw the notification probably will respond tomorrow and read it then.

[Part6fam]

Most probably keeping his options open, just take it easy and let it flow, like I said don't forget yourself.

[Asker]

yeah I won't I do still keep my options open not focusing on him we have been speaking a long time. At least he replied

[Part6fam]

How long have you guy been talking?

[Asker]

2 months most days just been taking a while to meet but we are now

[Asker]

I've always been more of the in control one he did send the initial message he doesn't seem to be the proactive/aggressive guy like he's preferring me in control he hasn't really changed

[Part6fam]

That's annoying as hell, like I said if he likes you he will make more of an effort, trust me. You sit back and chill and let him come to you

[Asker]

Yeah it is annoying maybe he's been nervous hesitant up til now so been putting it off as long as this meet up goes ahead I stopped talking to him all week last week I never messaged him until a week later I usually never leave it long. Probably be different once we meet more real. I never brought up the meet up anymore as he'd cancelled a lot or bad planning just kept to chatting so I left it up to him an this week t he brought it up the meet i don't know if he noticed I stopped talking to him that week.

[Part6fam]

In my experience when a guy likes you he will make a lot of effort. He needs to start making some moves

[Part6fam]

He will take control of the conversation and make it more about you and less about him. This is the early stages for you, you need to meet up with this guy or it's going to be like this for a while

[Asker]

He has started taking more control he always asks questions when we talk but he seems to be changing since that week I stopped talking to him completely he asked me out now so as long as this goes ahead it'll be great

[Part6fam]

Awwwww that sounds promising, I hope it works out for you, keep is posted.

[Asker]

I replied this morning he'd had a match on responded right after he lost said he was feeling stressed he was flirty I just said aw sorry to hear that an was a bit flirty then said how he has next weekend to look forward and asked which hotel we should book since it needs to be done in advance an what he's up to for the rest of the day. hasn't said anything back yet but he has read the message.
I don't if he's just winding down now after losing the match

[Asker]

we haven't booked the hotel yet he said he didn't mind which hotel I suggested the hotel saying
aw yeah I'll definitely cheer you up for sure :') cool lets stay at the carlton hotel what night do you want to book one cause I can't wait? same chilled too I'm up early for college ahh :')

did the message seem ok? hope the hotel didn't seem fancy it was cheap all the same price

[Asker]

he hasn't said anything back yet sent it yesterday evening