How do shy guys act around girls they like?

[Anonymous]

[dangerDoge]

I'm shy myself. So, let me try to give you the difference between shy and uninterested guys.
1.) Shy guys will stare at the girl they like but will try and hide it. The problem with shy guys is that they are great at pokerfacing. They won't ever really deny having a crush on someone (unlike an uninterested guy) but they will not make it apparent. So if you ask a guy if he is interested or is crushing on so and so, he will probably just blush and be silent instead of dismissing the idea.

2.) Around you, if he is interested and you are alone, he will probably try to force conversation to happen. Big groups are daunting to shy guys, but if you two are alone, it gives him more confidence to speak.

3.) If you say something that shocks a pretty shy guy, he will blush-- at least for me anyhow haha. He will also probably volunteer to be with you when he can. Like if you need a ride home he will try and volunteer, especially if their aren't any groups around.

4.) His personality really opens up with texting. If you text him and he suddenly becomes funny, energetic, whatever, that is a prettt good sign. Granted, not all guys are texters though, so don't count it as a bad sign if he doesn't text.

5.) He'll be interested in what you do, and will try and find common ground. A shy guy also tends to be a great observer, and will remember things his crush has said before. He may even reference them. Ex.) crush says she likes the show Arrow. Suddenly shy guy starts watching Arrow, and now they have a conversation to talk about.
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Uninterested guys will just treat you like every other person. Shy guys will treat you differently. They'll remember what you like often times, try to talk to you (but often fail), and will even smile around their crush naturally because they can't hide their feelings well.

However, a shy guy often takes FOREVER to confess to their crush. So if you see a shy guy, go ahead and talk to them! Take the intitiative to break him out of his shell.

[dangerDoge]

*Between crushing shy guys and uninterested shy guys I mean*

[Asker]

He offers me rides pretty often. I work with him so anytime we work late together he offers, I feel like I catch him staring a lot but it's hard to tell if he's looking at me or just looking around. He teases me pretty often too. When I texted him the first time I just said hey and he replied and then we talked for a couple hours and things went good. He seemed interested in the conversation, double texted once when I was taking a while to answer, he sent emoticons a couple times and didn't say anything about being tired until I said I'll let you go but then the next time I texted him he didn't answer so I don't know what to think

[Georgesandman]

He may be silent, or u will find him say silly and nonsense words, or u will find him run away from looking into your eyes when u stare in his eyes.
Notice: if u hurt him with rude words to make funny of him he will be annoyed.

[BrieLove]

barley talk and always waits for you to say something first

[BertMacklinFBI]

they don't "act" anything lol

[Asker]

How can i tell if he's flirting? I really like him but don't want to pursue anything if he doesn't feel the same way

[BertMacklinFBI]

people flirt in many ways and there are also casual flirts as well. a shy guy flirting? that is unlikely.