I totally agree with Victorianne, eventually if you continue down this path being female you will develop an attachment to this guy, your self esteem will diminish or may be low right now. You mentioned want to be fun or pleasing the guy, however as much as I can see he's not into pleasing you emotionally, he will continue to see you when he wants not necessarily any other time and it has nothing to do with being pleased or not with your performance. Guys see sex usually as something to do, it's more accomplishment based not emotional. If he was a woman he'd use the I'm pleased with your performance, and come back more often, but that is not why he does what he does. I personally don't do casual sex or one night stands, some guys do. I prefer commitment, but I don't get into a committed relationship just for sex, I do it because I like the woman as a whole. If you would rather have a relationship, then find a guy for that, if you think you can handle guys just using you for sex then do that but it has consequences.
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It depends. I've text chicks who said they want to hook up and we'd talk for a while. Then one day I text them and they don't text back at all. Then some we text some then like they won't say shit for a while then I'll text them and they'll respond. Other ones we'll text a little bit daily. Some people are hella busy. One chick I didn't text for a week or two and then I texted like every day. It all depends.
I've never had a fuckbuddy , coz I'm only interested in a mutual committed relationship. Everyone looks for different things though
I'd assume you weren't the only girl he's having sex with. If they aren't available when he's horny he'll probably then turn to you. There's usually a price to pay when you have a fuckbuddy. You will never feel special to him , and a lot of people find it costs them their self-esteem and confidence. Maybe having a fuckbuddy doesn't work for you after all.
I have a twice a week fuck buddy. I don't know where to find the actual normal statistics. Try the New York Times classified
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He's either not as attracted to you as you are to hin,
Thinks you are getting to close or fears you might if he sees you too often, or is busy with life/possibly other girls.
Next time you hookup you can just say you want to make it a weekly thingOften
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